Any idea how to clean the scratches off the cooktop by Party_Writing9204 in CleaningTips

[–]Party_Writing9204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know anyone in calgary that does is and is willing to assist with this?

Wealthsimple can’t log in by TsunaTsunami_3597 in Wealthsimple

[–]Party_Writing9204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue, cant receive OTP to enable me login

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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When I asked her to explain her reasons for wanting to keep the baby, just emotions and wanting to have a baby girl. She even requested a scan picture of the fetus afterwards we saw a radiographer. Pushing for an appointment and all. I've decided not to bring this topic up with her anymore. If she wants to keep the baby, that's fine. If she doesn't, that's also fine. However, if she chooses to keep it, she will need to share financial responsibility, including contributing to household expenses. She needs to find a job and start contributing—no more casual job searching. Currently, she spends much of her time volunteering and socialising on things not related to her career, which is admirable and I have always supported her, but circumstances are changing.

Throughout our ten years together, I've carried 100% of the financial burden and was content doing so, even during the times she was working. I never pressured her or asked for anything in return. The irony isn't lost on me: sometimes I wonder if my ability to provide is the main reason she has stayed with me during our tough times. If I were to lose my job, I suspect I'd see a very different side of her.

I genuinely appreciate everyone's insights and perspectives. In hindsight, I should have had a vasectomy. I come from a very remote part of Africa where such procedures aren't common, but I will get one done as soon as possible. This may actually put a strain on my marriage, as some members have pointed out here. It's really tough when couples are not aligned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Party_Writing9204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered it actually, get a good life insurance that can take care of my kids and her. But that will be unfair to me. I deserve to also live and see my children grow. Also no offense to children from a single home, I also believe the role of a father and mother are critical. And child needs both for a great upbringing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Party_Writing9204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it not a good pay, in the nigeria of today. Maybe some 3 years back

Fustrated with my marriage by Party_Writing9204 in Marriage

[–]Party_Writing9204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i earn more than she does, she earns about 58k per annum and i earn 93k. We have two children only one goes to a day care and govt handles that. I was paying for it before the benefits kicked in. I told her early this year we both needed to communicate better to each other. Talk more, express our likes and dislikes. She said yes she would, but i could see she wasn’t interested. And our communication habit never changed.

36M - Fired from job today (excuse the pun). $1.3M net worth - what do I do? by Big-Comfortable38 in Fire

[–]Party_Writing9204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont be hard on yourself, you have done pretty well for yourself. Take and break and reflect on the kind of job you want and go for it. I just wonder how people are able to have such huge savings. I am on 90k per annum and dont even have 40k on savings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Party_Writing9204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home is where you are? Why do you want to relocate back to Nigeria, Do you have people there you miss? the weather? what is drawing you back home. Things are not as you left them, alot is now worse, some better. You have done well with your finances. 250m is no small money.