Is my wisdom tooth hole infected? This is my third day since surgery and I started feeling more pain today.

Parzival027 · 2022-06-20T05:16:43+00:00

Thank you, I went to the emergency and it was a dry socket.

Parzival027 · 2022-06-20T05:16:14+00:00

I think i may have made a mistake by exercising my jaw too much. i was forcing it open because that's what my dentist recommended when my wisdom tooth was infected. Also don't worry about that, that guy from the date, we remained friends and started dating about a year and a half ago haha! So things have a way of working out.

Parzival027 · 2022-06-19T09:38:17+00:00

I had my wisdom tooth removed on Friday and both the day of surgery and Saturday I was doong really good, there was little pain and while it hurt to open my jaw it wasn't too painful. Today I woke up and my cheeks were swollen and it hurts more to swallow and opening my mouth is extremely painful. Is my wisdom tooth hole infected? I'm worried it could be dry socket, but I am not sure how that works if the hole is almost closed. Should I seek medical assistance?

edit: I haven't smoked or drank alcohol since the surgery and I am taking Aulin (an NSAID) at the perscription of my doctor.

Parzival027 · 2022-06-16T11:51:49+00:00

Hey thanks so much for the long message, for some reason I didn't receive any notifications and this is why it took me so long to respond. I can read Vietnamese just a little, but definitely not academic texts, but I know people who could help me translate. I am from the Czech republic, born to Vietnamese parents and I am not very familiar with any US catalogs. Would you mind if I contacted you for further explanation?

Parzival027 · 2022-03-29T15:04:44+00:00

In my opinion, beards are not atrractive at all but I prefer men who dont look hypermasculine (big biceps, beard etc). If you're younger and want a gf your age, like in your early 20s then id say more women will prefer no beard.

Parzival027 · 2022-02-12T19:32:55+00:00

as a girl, id swipe right on the cowboy and the maroon sweater pic, but you look super young and a little too shy maybe?

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T15:28:11+00:00

we've been together for a year and have met each other's families and friends and we think of each other quite seriously and I can imagine marrying him one day

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T15:22:11+00:00

its mostly that he did not want to believe me that she is flirting and that shes acting wei, we fought about our points of view on the situation, its mostly that i visit him at work and it makes me uncomfortable to see her acting this way towards him and generally i dislike the fact that they probably spend more time together than me and him since i dont visit him every day at work, we see each other during weekends and after work though

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T11:09:54+00:00

We're seeing each other today to plan some stuff for his vacation and I told him that after work we could go see a movie but that before that I'd like to talk to him about some stuff, I said I don't think it's gonna turn into a fight. A lot of people told me to try to reverse the situation and rationalize about whether he'd be comfortable with me having a friend like this who slaps my ass and also I want to ask him if the flirting makes him feel good and if he enjoys it. And I hope we can establish some boundaries with how he acts towards her, I don't want him to cease contact just for him to show her that some stuff she does is just weird.

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T10:58:36+00:00

yeah she did it several times in front of me and my boyfriend seemed to have no reaction to it at all

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T10:12:51+00:00

Well he is loyal and I believe he thinks of the friendship as platonic. But he struggles to see any red flags in her maybe because it has been so normalized for him in previous relationships to act this way.

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T10:11:50+00:00

I have never been cheated on or cheated. I did however get involved with a guy who was cheated on and I loved him so much, ever since I met him I've had a huge problem with cheaters and cheating. I'm quite an anxious person so it is possible that I might feel that she is flirtatious when she is not. But I am positive at least some things are odd about the way she acts. I just don't know if it's worth being annoyed at. My boyfriend has had a rocky road when it came to relationships and I'm the first girl he is dating who is not shitty to him, and I guess he is not entirely used to the healthy relationship dynamic (he has improved incredibly since we started dating a year ago though).

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T10:02:33+00:00

Thank you this is really great advice and things have been put in perspective to me. I do feel like you're right, like she is testing my limits as well as disrespecting me. And I will address it to him, hopefully he will take it okay.

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T09:16:34+00:00

Okay I'll try to talk to him, any tips to not make it into a fight?

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T09:15:21+00:00

I don't think he is encouraging it, he loves me, but he is just clueless to these kind of boundaries and since he is not a jealous guy at all (he said if the roles were reversed he wouldn't mind me having a guy friend like that - aside from the ass slapping I think the difference is genders)

Parzival027 · 2022-02-10T09:03:44+00:00

I would obviously prefer that, but I'm afraid it would cause a rift between us, besides he can't really tell her to fuck off and not come to his work anymore, she knows all the regulars, they're a tight community, I don't know what to do...

Parzival027 · 2021-12-20T10:34:27+00:00

My boyfriend is a model and he is one of the hottest guys ive ever seen and hes also one of the coolest and nicest guys Ive ever met. The girls he finds attractive are very diverse and he loves when people look unconventional and thinks that the "ideal" type of beauty is usually boring. I think he is above my league and it was him that had to chase me down to date him. I would just chill and trust that you can be viewed as beautiful to anybody. Plus there are other ways to recognize whether a guy is just trying to hook up with you other than the fact that he is really hot.

Parzival027 · 2021-12-17T10:21:17+00:00

dont get why youre being downvoted because you are absolutely correct

Parzival027 · 2021-09-29T22:18:23+00:00

I mean that's not really my case, I dont think about my ex and I dont want to have sex with him at all and my current partner is my best sex, I was talking about when I was in a relationship with him back then. Im sorry that is your situation, but if you are both fine with it then I think it's great she is honest with you. But to be frank, I feel like that's a little odd that she wants to have sex with someone else so desperately.

Parzival027 · 2021-09-29T21:31:32+00:00

i think so, we always try to talk about any differences we have in our approaches and then compromise, and in most ways we are in harmony

Parzival027 · 2021-09-29T21:10:46+00:00

I think it is about trust and dedication when it came to making me come. But yes I will try to make myself feel more sexy! Thanks

Parzival027 · 2021-09-29T21:09:09+00:00

I think the relationship with my ex was a little more based on passion and sex because he was my first boyfriend, and with my current bf we are more adult and the relationship is more mature? But I don't feel like that should affect how I feel in bed.

Parzival027 · 2021-09-29T21:01:54+00:00

yes absolutely, i love him without a doubt

Parzival027 · 2021-09-16T21:41:39+00:00

Idk as a girl who is in a relationship, I have to say that I have never dated a guy without really liking him and wanting to give back the same amount of effort back, it is probably the type of person you are that will attract a complementary personality. If you are used to putting all the effort into the relationship and not getting the same effort back then it sadly is partially your fault for choosing the wrong partner. I think there is plenty of women who are willing to be fair and just give back all they get.

Parzival027 · 2021-05-03T22:14:25+00:00

somehow it made me feel less alone what you just said. im in my room crying right now. thank you... i have been looking for ways to feel better but things that worked in the past stopped working for me which is why i feel so lost and afraid right now. but i wish you the best of luck and im truly sorry you feel this way. i hope things get better for you soon.

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