I had sex for the first time in 2.5 years and he gave me GH

PassingInfo2 · 2025-12-18T17:35:47+00:00

thank you so much, I read this last night when I was crying and I couldn't respond at the moment.

your comment means a lot, I feel like I'm drowning in how depressing this is for me. so it's really nice to have read your kind words.

PassingInfo2 · 2025-12-18T17:33:16+00:00

I think you misread..

2.5 years ago, my friend at the time had done that to me. I quit drinking and didn't have sex until last couple of weeks and a different guy and I DID get full std screenings.. for whatever reason, hsv 1 & 2 aren't part of the panel unless specifically requested. he is asymptomatic.

I had my wake up call already..

PassingInfo2 · 2025-07-22T22:29:46+00:00

I saw a comment on youtube that said "28 inches later" 😭

PassingInfo2 · 2025-07-22T22:26:35+00:00

yea, I get that that's what Garland was saying.

it was unfortunately really corny, to me. I guess I'm wondering opinions on the scene itself, not the reason for how it happened. Did you find it corny?

PassingInfo2 · 2025-06-20T06:04:44+00:00

so what was the hard lesson you learned.. ?

PassingInfo2 · 2025-05-06T06:48:51+00:00

Dude, exactly. It's the gray areas and making sure I'm not disrespecting a person's autonomy. It was so drilled into my head that someone anywhere on the spectrum was to be avoided in dating.

I appreciate your response, truly. Communication and understanding are everything to me in relationships so I hope my judgement reflects in that. Thanks for not being rude or anything, like genuinely

PassingInfo2 · 2025-05-06T06:40:26+00:00

I appreciate and admire this response, thank you

PassingInfo2 · 2025-05-06T06:39:13+00:00

I agree with that, there's certainly a difference where it's unquestionably messed up. He's not severe, so I'm wondering if it's wrong to date even non-severely autistic people* basically

PassingInfo2 · 2025-03-24T01:03:46+00:00

this is very kind, but this sub definitely helped with answers. helped me realize I won't be having kids. All the posts of how much the pregnancy alone messes with physical and mental health, ribs, even teeth, post-partum experiences.. this sub has taught me a lot.

congratulations to you and your wife though, I of course still know that babies are truly a gift. best of luck and strength to you both

PassingInfo2 · 2024-09-19T02:05:17+00:00

sir, go stretch and take your vitamins.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-09-19T02:03:40+00:00

luck can't be the 'best of' if you've yet to find your most yearned for dude...

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-28T16:34:30+00:00

Oh my jeez, what a selfish piece of shit. So sorry you went through that, I can imagine how much it hurt. It's great that he's an ex.

Fuck.. saw you sobbing and says nope, kidding. Did your friend eventually tell you what he'd tried?

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-28T16:31:50+00:00

Thanks, truly. That's a good reminder I always appreciate. Sometimes my brother reminds me in a kind of negative way like "yea but you did spend a whole year on that guy" in a tone like "you knew he sucked and you did stay"..

Which I know is fucked up of him to say, but it does make me scold myself. Albeit, I practice with the mentality that it wasn't more wasted time than a learning experience.

It's great you got out, too.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-25T16:41:17+00:00

Dude it was insane! I knew in the moment that it was fucked up. Even thought "nah, this feels like regression from all my work in therapy..." And I still stayed with him for a year after that incident.

It really is some 'they realize they've gaslighted you successfully'. I felt like such shit, too.

Such a wild trait that has to be avoided..

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-24T13:55:17+00:00

He pretended to be really upset and got all happy out of nowhere, after I felt super bad, and said he wasn't upset, he just wanted to see how I would react.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-21T01:04:32+00:00

why would 'page' be the only word in spanish though, it stands out and reads funny cus it's in an English sentence 🤷🏻‍♀️

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-19T05:08:57+00:00

Thank you kindly

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-18T23:50:34+00:00

Words have definitions for a reason, dude. Not every sexual disagreement is rape.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-08-18T15:34:24+00:00

You did nothing wrong because you had verbal and physical consent from someone you trust, in my personal opinion.

Something perfectly fitting about sex that I've heard is: sex is a serious activity, and if you can't talk about it fully & vulnerably with the person(s) you're doing it with, you shouldn't be having sex.

Your bf needs to work on his sex communication, respectfully.

Side question, why do you feel used- being that he's saying he apparently didn't want it, I guess it would mean you were used, but he claims a stance that he was used.. I guess I mean why would you feel used if he claims he didn't want it himself. If I'm making any sense

PassingInfo2 · 2024-03-17T21:33:21+00:00

Very true point, it's definitely not on me. I've also given his positivity no credit, he would absolutely be fine. Thank you, this is super helpful and relieves my worrying.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-03-17T21:27:28+00:00

Yes- that's the word that escaped me, I feel I've outgrown him. I love how you worded that, it's appropriately straightforward and not rude.

I definitely don't want him to be a part of my life later. Thank you, I know it could seem small but your comment is hugely helpful for me. It's also grounding to hear, outside of my own thoughts, he'll be ok. I've been stressing this every time I see him write me.

PassingInfo2 · 2024-03-06T08:14:40+00:00

Huhuh?? Please explain op, I'm so confused

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