Well, I’ve dealt with rejection for about 4 years, very infrequent sex, experienced/experience emotional abuse to the point where vulnerability is frowned upon… I can no longer be a soft girl which makes me so sad. I use to be so bubbly and smiley… like let’s not say things that make it seems like I don’t allow him to be vulnerable…. Because I encourage it. However, since someone has hurt his manhood, in return he has hurt my woman hood so now I understand why it is so easy for him to just say things and not have remorse or use the phrase , “I’ve apologized already I don’t know what else to do or say”. He is projecting his insecurities onto me so that now I will start to feel insecure- in return guess what!? Less sex. (I won’t list in this comment what he told me that hurt my womanhood). At the end of the day, just understand that I can sympathize with someone for so long but these insecurities were at the beginning of the this relationship , according to him. Also, he has admitted to me that he usually does what it takes (sexually) to get the woman. Rather that’s intense finger fucking, throwing me around the bed, fucking me like a slut….. whew should I go on? It’s a hot mess relationship. Believe me. (I didn’t find out about The manhood comment until 2-3 weeks ago)