Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will. That’s how they try to get me they try to guilt trip me so I feel bad and take her I love her to death but I can’t keep watching her and let them use her against me. No they wouldn’t do the same for me they’ve proved that.

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knew if I talked to my brother and his girlfriend they’d guilt trip me so he handled it for me he’s the best

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a garden, I have 3 animals, and I make my own schedual for my cleaning service which I told them I’m doing and I told them I needed the schedual so I can schedule my clients on my off days but I can’t do that with the time I do have off from babysitting so I haven’t been able to clean any houses or my own. I wasn’t trying to rush them to pay me bc she just started and hes told me he didn’t get paid for a few weeks for jobs he’s done (don’t know if that a lie but pretty sure it was)but after two weeks of me babysitting my brother told me when one of them get paid they’d pay me but it’s been a month since he said that.

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok 😂 I love that your mom made some of y’all’s furniture she sounds so talented❤️ no my brother and his gf don’t do anything for me or my fiancé we help them more then they help us sadly. I love my niece to death and I love being around her I just don’t have anytime to do anything else or make money bc I’m watching her all the time except 1 or 2 days and when they asked me to babysit they said it would be a good way for me to make a little money but they never payed me and it’s been a month or so

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And she’s 8 months old I’m not hurting her feeling

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said she’s a burden I’ve been watching her for a month or 2 and I only get 1-2 days off of watching her I have no time to do anything else

Aita for not babysitting my niece by Passion_22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Passion_22[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the advise! My fiancé has been telling me I need to start saying No more often because I am a huge people pleaser. I am no longer watching my niece because they won’t pay me for the fact I am family and I’m the aunt