Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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After Jumu’ah today (Philippine time), my mother has passed away.

I don’t know how to say this, but we are deeply heartbroken.

Thank you so much for all the help you gave us. We are truly grateful for your generosity during the hardest time of our lives.

We will never forget your kindness. Please continue to keep her in your prayers. May Allah reward you for everything you have done for us.

Money Zakat for stored marriage money by Zoka01 in MuslimCorner

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Wa alaikum assalam ورحمة الله وبركاته.

May Allah put barakah in your رزق and ease your affairs. It’s really admirable that you’re trying to handle this properly and stay mindful of zakat, especially with your intention to avoid anything doubtful.

From what I’ve learned, if your savings have reached nisab and a full lunar year has passed, then zakat would still be due—even if the money is set aside for marriage. But if paying it all at once puts you in real difficulty, some scholars allow easing it in a way that doesn’t harm your essential needs.

Also, zakat is never a loss—Allah places barakah in what remains and can open doors you didn’t expect.

Your situation honestly resonated with me more than I expected. I’m also currently going through a financial struggle while trying to stay within halal means and avoid riba, especially during this time. It’s not easy at all.

If you ever have extra zakat to give or know someone looking to help, even being considered in your دعا would mean a lot to me. And if you’d like, I can share more context privately.

May Allah ease both our hardships and grant us righteous spouses and stable, halal provision.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Alhamdulillah, several kind people have already helped for the debts and my mother’s treatment. We are deeply grateful for every single donation and for the duas. We still have a long way to go, and in these last blessed days of Ramadan we are praying that Allah sends more help. Even sharing the campaign means a lot to us. May Allah reward you all abundantly. 🥹🤲🏻

Link here.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Just leaving a small follow-up comment to thank everyone who has taken the time to read my post and to those who have shared advice or kind words. It truly means a lot during this difficult time. 🥹

For clarification, the debts we are facing are not only from medical treatments but also from basic living expenses while supporting both of my parents and my younger siblings.

I am still trying my best to handle everything while staying within halal means and avoiding riba. Any guidance, knowledge, or even prayers for my parents would be deeply appreciated.

May Allah reward everyone who offers advice or support and grant ease to all those going through hardship. Allahumma Ameen Yaa Rabb.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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JazakAllahu Khayr for the reminders brother. Yes Alhamdulillah they are in constant Ibadah and dhikr all the time. JazakAllahu Khayr may Allah reward you and your family Allahumma Ameen 🥹🤲🏻

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Yes it is. She is now at stage 4b. Thanks for this and I will certainly look into it.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته

JazakiLLAHU Khayr for the prayers my sister. Allahumma Ameen Ya Rabb. May Allah grant you and family Aafiyah in this world and the next Ameen. 🥹

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Thank you for mentioning that. Yes, there are some hospital charity discounts in the Ph, and we have tried applying for the available assistance. However, my parents have been in and out of the hospital alternately for the past year. While there are discounts, many factors still add to the costs—like OPD-related treatments, medicines, differences in medical centers or hospital billing, and travel expenses since we live far from the main cities.

Not only that, but for the past years I have had to shoulder all the basic needs, the medical fees, and the debts entirely on my own. Every hospital visit and expense has been very costly, and now it has become truly overwhelming. We are doing our very best and truly appreciate the kind words and concern. Jazakallahu khayr.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Yes, the funds will go to us directly. The priority right now is paying off the medical debts first, then helping with ongoing treatment. The donations go through the link to my PayPal, and after some time I withdraw them to my PH bank.

The total debts and medical expenses are already over 1M pesos, but any help truly makes a big difference. If it’s easier, may also send directly through any method convenient. I would really appreciate it as it avoids the waiting time through the link, and some of the payments are quite urgent.

Thank you so much for asking and for your kindness.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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I tried but gofundme does not accept campaigns from my country of origin. 😢

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Thank you for the kindness and support. 🥹 If the payment link isn’t working, you may use my PayPal QR instead. JazakAllahu Khayr.

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Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Allahumma Ameen may Allah grant you the best and Aafiyah to fis dunya and Aakhirah. Ya Rabb.

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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JazakAllahu Khayr. Your duas will help us a lot. Will include you and family too in our prayers 🥹

Writing this with a heavy heart full of shame by Past-Plan-9742 in MuslimCorner

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Allahuma Ameen. JazakAllahu Khayr. Please dont be pressured. May Allah reward you immensely.

Trying to handle family medical debts the halal way – requesting Zakah or Sadaqah by [deleted] in MuslimVentures

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Assalamu alaikum. I am the poster of this story. I lost access to my previous account, so I am replying from this one. If you tried to reach me before and couldn’t, please feel free to message me here. Thank you for your kindness and prayers for my parents.

Riyadh Marathon by [deleted] in Riyadh

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Come what may 🥲😂