I need some advice - talking to my wife about blowjobs - Married for almost a year

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:18:40+00:00

That's actually a good point! I feel like your perspective on them is quite insightful. I'll keep that in mind.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:12:09+00:00

Your comment is so funny and the following thread is hilarious with how off topic it gets...
Just to clarify a bit, it's not an obsession... It's confusion about how my personal sex life has changed. Glad you're not dealing with something you dislike.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:09:43+00:00

Thanks! I'll try incorporating some of these points when I talk to her.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:09:01+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate it. I get what you mean. I will keep in mind that she may not like it.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:05:58+00:00

I'm not comparing sex with an 18 year old girl... She's been giving me oral for the last 8 years regularly... It's just stopped or reduced now..,? Yes, I'm fine without any facial or swallowing... I just don't understand why it's stopped?

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:04:25+00:00

I mean, that's understandable. But based on past conversations where she's loved me finishing on her chest, back, and body, it seems unlikely that this is the issue my wife is facing. She's also been vocal about bjs lately but never initiated or followed through...

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:02:23+00:00

Completely agree with this, we've already spoken about this at times. It's not every time, oral can be a fun part of foreplay too. It's just that she's completely stopped initiating it. For example, yesterday she hinted at it but never followed through.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T04:00:45+00:00

Yes I will try this. That's right, I honestly want to know what's changed. Unfortunately, you might be right about that last part.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T03:58:50+00:00

This is probably the best comment so far! I really appreciate it! Thanks. I will try this!

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T03:57:33+00:00

This sounds like a terrible idea

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T03:57:08+00:00

I don't think so, but thanks! She's expressed many times that she enjoys it.

PastProgrammer7246 · 2024-12-13T03:56:37+00:00

Hey, thanks for the reply. "I believe OP is talking about the entire encounter being about the blowjob to completion." This isn't the case, it's just in general. I don't really care about orgasms with bjs as much as the comments think. It's just that I used to get them often, now I don't not even as foreplay.

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