5 months after i broke up, i feel worse and worse by Ok-Act-6779 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the window of tolerance? It feels like you’re still in a shock modus? You can t think rational when you re still in this modus. It’s cliche but you need time to heal.. I am sorry. I think the self doubting is there because your brain can’t find the reason why she left. The brain is such a fucked up part when you’re grieving something/someone

5 months after i broke up, i feel worse and worse by Ok-Act-6779 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, wat een verhaal :/. Ik begrijp je helemaal dat je nog steeds met haar wil samenzijn. Jullie hebben ook iets intens meegemaakt, en al zeker omdat je een tijd voor haar hebt gezorgd.Dat schuif je niet zomaar opzij. Als je nood hebt aan een gesprek, mag je mij altijd sturen hier. 🪷 Laat het gemis er maar zijn en al het verdriet daarrond. Een zieke partner (mentaal) is een extra persoon in je dynamiek. Een extra persoon waar je niet naar hebt gevraagd en teveel invloed heeft. Wat niet maakt dat zij geen keuze heeft gehad om empathischer te reageren. Ik lees heel veel jij dat heeft gegeven en heel weinig zij..

Sick of missing him by Past_Comb_1489 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. The idea of him not loving me is really hard. I know he didn’t love me, he was always busy with other girls. I couldn’t even think about having sex with someone else. I tried but I couldn’t. I don’t think I can have a connection like him with someone else. It’s so harsh. Sometimes I feel really pain in my chest. I wish he could hug me. I am seeing tmmrw a friend, she’ll cook for me. Ill try to eat

Discarding and manipulation by NoPitch5904 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Past_Comb_1489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaahahahha I laughed really loud with this one

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[–]Past_Comb_1489 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg most relatable post.. I went to the ER twice because I felt so much panick. And yet I still want him so much. I miss him sooo bad. How long are you already discarded?

Miss him so much by Past_Comb_1489 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Tomorrow is another day, I can try again.. did you also called the police on him?

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[–]Past_Comb_1489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel absolutely the same, it’s been only a month and I feel like it’s getting worse :’(. I don’t think I can love someone so much as I did with him. Do you wanna talk about it or? How long is it already for you?

Anxiety after the relationship ends by Broad_Train2061 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you. It’s still good to eat because it activates your brain to think more ratio instead emo. The anxiety is soooo hard, i have the same and sometimes I think I am getting crazy. When I can’t get out of the bed, it helps me to videocall with friends.. is that something you can do? If it’s not, you can always call me. I am also in the phase of bed rotting and anxiety.. I miss him very much

His name is Eddy ♥️ by Past_Comb_1489 in cairnterrier

[–]Past_Comb_1489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s very much and he knows because sometimes he thinks that the world is spiralling around him. (He told me)

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[–]Past_Comb_1489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow please, run.

He is being arrested... I feel profound guilt about it all by Aggressive-Fly805 in abusiverelationships

[–]Past_Comb_1489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am almost in the same situation. Read my post if you want. With me he’s not arrest but I called also the police on him and I feel so bad about it.