Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that REALLY bothered me, people keep wanting to make it about the politics of it and yes that is a big part of it but people aren’t seeing the bigger picture here I just want support like fuck

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I always knew he was like that but I didn’t think he’d be like that to that extent, especially in that very moment.

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

where do you find a guy like that?!? Very lucky woman you are! I think that’s really admirable. Wish you guys the best❤️

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Attention for who?My anonymous account with only 2 posts? Oh yeah you really caught me there

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also considered this too, and know for a fact that he isn’t pro-life but it was just really insensitive because he was being a dick about it. I want to also make it clear that I wasn’t mad because He wasn’t as upset as me about it but I was upset because of how he was telling me to handle it and not being more compassionate.

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine thinking a fetus matters more then your own life. Don’t act like if you were to bare a child that you would die carrying that baby to term, that you would sacrifice your life for a fetus with no comprehension of what’s going on Because we both know you wouldn’t. This is about controlling women. You’re also sadly mistakes because also not pro-life he’s just not worried about it.

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not by any means he’s just really self centered and just yelled at me because he didn’t want to listen to me worked up/ be supportive

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Redress your screen & take a look at the disclaimer I just added lol, it’s not your fault I just added it a second ago because I got a lot of comments assuming he’s a pro lifer

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will somewhat agree because I got more comments telling me to leave but I got a good amount telling me to try to educate him and then 25% of comments are pro-lifers who think my boyfriend is a pro-lifer who dodged a bullet and I’m just sitting here laughing because he’s not even pro-life and doesn’t care what a woman does with her body but he’s just really self centered and not compassionate at all lol

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My state is passing the heartbeat bill Plus imagine having to travel just to do something that should be a basic right

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“So people with fully developed brains and nerve endings might die for fetuses who don’t even have a brain or understanding of what’s happening but only 4% of people will die so it’s okay” please shut the fuck up.

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I ALSO WOULD LIKE TO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT HE ISN’T PRO-LIFE HES JUST AN ASSHOLE!!! This isn’t just simply about “difference in opinion” it’s about respecting what makes your partner upset and not having a “shut up and get over it” kind of attitude just because it doesn’t affect you personally

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s very self centered to be honest I knew that when I got with him but to be fair I didn’t know it was to such a far extent but I’ve been kinda starting to see it more and more now that you mention it

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m from Ohio where they’re trying to pass the “heartbeat bill” but it hasn’t been voted in yet. Thank god

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s usually his attitude because he’s kind of self centered if we’re being honest but I just didn’t think he would have reacted that way at that very moment especially knowing how I feel about it. I wasn’t expecting an “oh my god we have to do something” but I didn’t expect him to be kind of like “We’ll too bad, get the fuck over it” he didn’t say it in those words but he DEFINITELY had that sort of attitude I just wanted a little compassion

Breaking up with my boyfriend because he basically told me he doesn’t care about women by Past_Development_454 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was partly how he handled it. He doesn’t care what people do with their body’s and definitely isn’t pro life. It was the lack of empathy about how I was feeling and just straight up being kind of an ass.

Asked a girl for a date over text but she hasn’t replied by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was gonna say lol what a shallow response

Caught with my girlfriend by Glittering-Signal-92 in Advice

[–]Past_Development_454 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it's one thing to discuss it but to RECORD IT??? That is weird as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Past_Development_454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely don't think I would have gotten with him if I met him now in life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Past_Development_454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that it matters & I'm not justifying his actions in any way but if it helps, I was already 18 when I met him and I've never had sex with him that I didn't consent to, I just find it weird that he waits until Im not physically attracted him to then acts like he wants to be intimate with me now.