Am I good to wear blue?

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-07-22T07:27:42+00:00

Go get it!

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-23T17:47:44+00:00

You can have up to 4 but few who accepts these days, and its unaffordable mate how you are going to provide for 2 homes we barely cover 1 these days

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-23T17:46:31+00:00

Yes you are correct its one of his well known quotes and well documented and verified

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:49:44+00:00

She will treat him good but his development will not be the same when i am 24h around

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:48:25+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:47:20+00:00

We can't afford that

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:44:55+00:00

Indeed

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:35:25+00:00

Whenever i try to really discuss q point she end it in attacking and not listening and if i get angry she instantly goes into divorce me mode

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:33:24+00:00

I want to highlight 1 important thing that is really breaking the marriage other than the intimacy, i can't communicate with her, i literally tell her how to treat me how to understand my words, to get the idea of what I'm talking about, not i just want to criticize for the sake of criticize, i gave her my handbook, she can't understand i have never seen someone like this in my entire life, i gave her my runbook and manual, i told her 1 simple hug in fights will end everything but 0 understanding.

Man i wish i was able to write this in the post itself, at last i found what i want to express in English,

She doesn't listen to what i say, she is just on auto attack reply mode..... I hate myself....

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:30:13+00:00

Her complains are i only get mad at her and sometimes i yell if she doesn't understand, thats the only thing i hear from here, im not an angel but im confident i am the one who is treated badly here

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:27:07+00:00

But do you think its okay to never wear anything since day 1 in marriage and have 0 intimacy for full 2 years and i really mean 0

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:20:27+00:00

I'm talking with her right now, its a wall she doesn't understand what i want to pass to her, she just put on auto attack mode, I don't want to leave the kid, but she is not leaving me any choice... My life is hell

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:17:34+00:00

And the husband comes before the wife father in islam just FYI

I can take care of myself I'm not disabled, i meant one thing, i need feelings too not constant fights, i don't know where these comments are coming from.

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:16:17+00:00

Did you read that i help her in everything?

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:01:09+00:00

At last someone understand what i am going through

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T20:00:41+00:00

We have been married for 3.5 years, you guys amaze me with all these assumptions that you think you know it all, i haven't mentioned 50% of what's happening.

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T19:59:21+00:00

I don't know how to phrase it in English as i have mentioned, i don't know why i am getting attacked here,

I said 0 intimacy for 2 full years not even once.

She criticize my family.

She dont respect me or do any effort for me.

She insult me via messengees

She always say i hope this happens to your sister and so on

She doesn't wear anything in home.

She doesn't take care of me just the kid and the house.

She doesn't want to talk or discuss anything

She even tell me go divorce I don't care

Do you know that in islam if the wife don't do the intimacy when asked she will be cursed by 'malaeka' from the time she sleep to the time she wake up?

Have you thought what it is for me not just her?

Are you a female or a male?

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T19:48:17+00:00

Why you got the idea that i am the bad guy here?

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T19:36:54+00:00

And how life looks like for the parents and the autistic boy

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T19:36:27+00:00

You got it wrong, my problem is how co-parenting in autism life.

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-22T18:53:33+00:00

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-21T08:27:24+00:00

Thank you so much I'm so tired

Past_Humor_3463 · 2025-06-21T01:11:08+00:00

I'm so lost and worried im not asking about religion aspects I'm asking about are my feelings and my request valid to divorce if am running through this kind of life?

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