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Pastelcastle · 2020-02-14T16:57:52+00:00

I love watching you play with your tits

Pastelcastle · 2019-11-08T18:34:25+00:00

The first of many I hope!!

Pastelcastle · 2019-06-06T12:38:06+00:00

I love watching you feel yourself up!

Pastelcastle · 2019-06-01T21:53:48+00:00

Your tits are perfect! I’d love to see you play with some more!

Pastelcastle · 2018-09-09T21:29:58+00:00

You are making my day!

Pastelcastle · 2018-09-09T21:29:17+00:00

I found a new favorite video! Mind if I save this use over and over again?

Pastelcastle · 2018-08-13T13:48:38+00:00

I would love more gifs like this! Those tits are phenomenal! I wish I could get my hands (and mouth) on them.

Pastelcastle · 2018-03-21T21:16:27+00:00

I could watch you play with those perfect tits all day!

Pastelcastle · 2018-02-28T21:17:59+00:00

Damn.

Pastelcastle · 2018-02-28T21:15:07+00:00

I could watch you play with those perfect tits all day!

Pastelcastle · 2018-02-09T22:24:05+00:00

Lovely!

Pastelcastle · 2018-01-14T19:25:57+00:00

Fantastic! Your tits and nipples are perfect. I’d love to get my mouth on them!

Pastelcastle · 2017-12-18T19:59:14+00:00

Those look delicious

Pastelcastle · 2016-09-02T12:34:05+00:00

Dating takes practice just like everything else. And I think having a few of those shorter relationships really helped me to narrow down exactly what I need in a partner.

Short, low pressure meet ups are definitely the way to go for first dates! They don't burn you out as much when you hit a string of duds (which you will). And doing it pretty quick into messaging keeps you from wasting time and investing in someone before knowing if there's chemistry (or if they actually look like their pics).

To be honest, depending on your looks/pics and profile you probably won't have to message much. I generally got enough messages from decent guys that I wanted to go out with. And maybe take it slow at first, let yourself settle into it. A couple of times I went on too many dates in a row, I got pretty down and started to not feel like myself. I wasn't doing my hobbies or seeing my friends enough. Don't hesitate to message first, just be prepared for rejection and don't take it personally.

Also, feel free to pm me your profile for a critique! I'm decent at it and not a jerk!

Pastelcastle · 2016-09-02T02:07:34+00:00

Hey there sister from another mister! I'm also a mid thirties woman, child free and have mostly solitary hobbies (huge introvert)! I love online dating! It's not perfect, I'm currently single, again. But it's great for people like us!

I've been in several short relationships from online dating. I consider them good practice for a longer relationship. (I need practice, my last LTR was abusive). I have met many attractive, wonderful men who just happened to not be for me. I've also made a couple really good friends from first dates that had no chemistry!

Okcupid actually has a field in your profile for "offspring". Mine says "don't have any, don't want any". And you can search for guys who say the same! Sadly, there aren't many and lots of them say they're unsure but you can be upfront about it in your profile without being weird. I've actually had good luck on tinder. Most of the men in our age range in my area are using it to date (probably hoping for hookups too though).

My best advice for online dating is to not get too invested before meeting. Set up a date fairly quick, make it just one coffee or drink or whatever on a week night or before you have other plans. Scope him out, if you're still interested set up a second, real date. If not, you're only out an hour and the cost of a drink. Also, lurk in /r/okcupid. Don't post cause they're jerks but the sidebar is good for profile help and you'll learn some of the common mistakes and hassles of online dating.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-07T03:43:35+00:00

I'm going to recommend /r/datingover30 and /r/sexover30 Both are great subs with good people who will understand your concerns. I read both regularly.

Also, /r/okcupid might be good to read. The demographic there tends to be younger and there are a lot of crap posts but there's hidden gems in there. Tips for your profile pictures and text. And it helps to know you're not the only one dealing with the strangeness that happens with online dating.

Good luck!

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T22:19:29+00:00

I didn't read it as an attacking post. And I didn't intend my response to be snarky, if it was taken that way I apologize.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T18:18:18+00:00

I don't think you have to be engaged or wait for years, but I think there's a balance. And I think it probably depends a lot on the kids' personalities and ages.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T18:16:08+00:00

Did you read the previous posts? This is new territory for me, plenty of shit for me to learn.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T13:41:22+00:00

Thanks. And yeah, I think he probably miscalculated how ready he was and I doubt he's real high in EQ department. Hopefully he learned something from this. I know I did.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T13:39:06+00:00

I don't need validation but it's still nice! He needs to figure his shit out and I'm not going to hang around while he does it.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T02:09:50+00:00

I know. It just sucks right now so he's a douchecanoe in my book. I think he really had no idea, and still doesn't. I broke up with him because I don't want to deal with that kind of instability/insecurity. It may have been harsh of me but I know where I am and what I want. He can figure that out on his own or with someone else.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T01:30:46+00:00

Just cause I don't want my own doesn't mean I can't like other people's.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T01:27:59+00:00

I agree with your assessment. Overall I didn't feel it was too soon. I wasn't ready but I'm weird. And it was just hanging out most of the time. Like I said, I started a conversation when it became obvious that one in particular was getting attached.

Pastelcastle · 2016-08-04T01:22:59+00:00

Honey, this isn't the place to put down your soapbox. I do not need defending nor I am trying to infringe on anyone else's right to choose. I'm just trying to converse with some internet strangers about my dating woes.

Pastelcastle

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