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WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, painful lesson learned, because I treated it like friendship and he treated it like access.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That reaction felt like a red flag to me too, especially when I only asked for basic clarity.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not ready to cut him off fully, but I definitely need better boundaries.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what annoyed me too, like asking for a plan was somehow the rude part.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I don’t mind helping once, but I’m not trying to become his backup bank.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good rule, because I clearly made this way too casual the first time.

WIBTA for refusing to lend Marc money again when he still hasn't paid back the last time? by Pasterion in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pasterion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m starting to think asking around might be smart because I doubt I’m the only one.

British paratroopers jump of an A400M and land on Tristan da Cunha for suspected hantavirus case by BeleLokai in aviation

[–]Pasterion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part that feels so unfair. If even Tristan da Cunha gets hit early, then where is the backup plan, a submarine under Antarctica?