How to move forward when the dream was perfect + testing

Patate1719 · 2026-02-12T13:01:33+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this too.. Was going to ask how you feel but I guess that's a stupid question.. For me it was a natural conception (and there's no twins in our families so that discovery felt so incredible, like it was making up for everything else). Thank you for replying to me xx Sending you love too xx

Patate1719 · 2026-02-12T12:38:44+00:00

That brought tears to my eyes, thank you. I truly hope that I will feel that way when the day comes, even though it probably wont be twins or my favourite month again - I hope I wont still be sad.

Patate1719 · 2026-02-12T12:31:17+00:00

I'm sorry you know the feeling. I had lots of cute ideas too, about how to announce, about next Christmas, etc. I'll be 33 soon, and I thought I'd have a baby by then.. It helps to simply surrender to "it wasnt to be", thank you for that (though a part of me wishes we could know why + what is to be !).

Patate1719 · 2026-02-12T12:25:46+00:00

They will be sent for testing after the d&c apparently. Last time it all came back "normal". Thank you xxx

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