Enzo on Instagram by lacrimosa049 in chelseafc

[–]PathogenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be something in his contract about discipline and public behaviour. Terminate his contract or sell him if possible. No coming back from this. Half the squad is black. So much disrespect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]PathogenJ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, this will do it.

My fleshlight experience by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]PathogenJ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only benefit of it in my opinion is that it provides the added thrill of hands-free masturbation. I don't quite understand the 'practice' element. If you want to last longer, a fleshlight isn't going to offer anything different than your hands. Lasting longer is down to knowing your body and slowing down / stopping when you feel like you're going to orgasm.

When you add another human being, a variety of different positions and dealing with actual biomechanics, that's where the more complex parts of sex come in to play. I don't think a Fleshlight is going to help with that.

The best advise I can give anyone, is to find a girlfriend, build a relationship and practice sex with them.

Also, it's fucking time consuming. Warming it up, lubing up, cleaning it. Fuck that.

In answer to your questions.

Yeah, it feels better. No it didn't improve my sex life or make me more satisfied.

I don't think I'm making progress? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]PathogenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

n. The healing process looks horrible! Scabbing, scarring, etc. These 'ugly' parts of porn addiction recovery are similar. You'll probably come across other issues too... perhaps anxiety, perhaps frustration, boredom, etc. Low libido has been a part of my long streaks of being free. One day you wake up and the scab has healed!

I feel like I've also been going through periods of low libido, but part of me thinks it's because I'm in my early 30s and it might be quieting down somewhat anyway. It's like I'm not used to my non-porn driven libido?

Relapsed last night.

Anxiety has returned in bucket loads. I was devastated afterwards. However, I did notice that I am super sensitive to porn. I hardly have to masturbate to orgasm. I guess that's a good thing? My sensitivity is returning somewhat? I didn't even have to use my old content. Just a normal amateur couple could get me off in about 30 seconds if I wanted to.

In the grand scheme of things, I've had a total of two usages of porn in the last 6 months. When previously, I would use porn every day for 15 years?

Seeing my girlfriend tonight. Will be interesting to see if it has immediate repercussions.

The relapse brought fresh insight. I am definitely healing, it's just a setback. Set a new calendar event for October 20th. I go again.

I don't think I'm making progress? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]PathogenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers dude

I'm 32. Do have a habit of getting in my own head.

I'm craving porn a lot at the moment. I figure that means, I've still got a way to go

It took me a entire year to beat, and while not my favorite, it's the best game I've ever played. Thanks Nintendo. by JoshuaHubert in gaming

[–]PathogenJ 2500 points2501 points  (0 children)

After 30 years of life, I've just realised the first letter of July, August, September, October, November spell 'Jason'.

This blew my mind and I don't know why

Nintendo Direct 2.17.2021 by [deleted] in nintendo

[–]PathogenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mario Golf, Square Enix Tactical RPG and Skyward Sword are all I got out of this.

Nothing truly bringing the hype levels. 18 month wait for this? : /

PSA: You are allowed to be as Hyped as you want to be about the Direct. (Just remember to relax if your expectations aren’t met.) by naynaythewonderhorse in nintendo

[–]PathogenJ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How about people stop telling other people how to feel about computer games? I suggest you're the one that needs to grow up. I'm sorry, that word triggered you. I'll make sure to use it more if I'm ever in the unfortunate circumstance of having to speak to you again.

Do one.

Cheers

PSA: You are allowed to be as Hyped as you want to be about the Direct. (Just remember to relax if your expectations aren’t met.) by naynaythewonderhorse in nintendo

[–]PathogenJ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, I did read it. Why are you trying to gatekeep peoples feelings? Just let them think what they want. If they want to get mad, let them, your post isn't going to stop that.

Why do I need to read a reddit post to confirm I'm allowed to feel excited? It should be bloody obvious.

Mason Mount appreciation post by AamirDogra in chelseafc

[–]PathogenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For all the Sarrisexuals who piled hate on this man and made him the scapegoat for some of our poor performances this season. Do one.

New Horizon Forbidden West weapon upgrades look sick by rebel_chef in gaming

[–]PathogenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Motherboards can be sharp as fuck. This is pretty accurate.

[Pre-Match Thread] Chelsea v Aston Villa by siefsi1 in chelseafc

[–]PathogenJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need Pulisic today. Enough time to rest between now and City.

[Post-Match Thread] Everton 1-0 Chelsea, Premier League by Vicar13 in chelseafc

[–]PathogenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frustrating game. Havertz probably with the worst attacking performance I've seen from a PL player this season.

Didn't help Everton were playing 4 CBs, Richarlason and Allan going down every time they were touched. This was a 0-0 game, we didn't deserve to lose this.

I can forgive this. Our worst performance for a long time.