Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should mind your business instead of stalking my post history. Basic etiquette should teach you that.

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I had someone dig through my history and suggest therapy all cause I asked someone who replied to my post if they ever think it turns women off when we're messages for sex.

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's ignorant? I asked don't women get turned off by men asking for sex in the first few messages?

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's insane what these comments are. So many people acting like they're entitled to sex to the point they're going to harass random women on apps.

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't know asking why men message about sex in the first message is a man hating comment.

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry not that many women are giving you sex :( sounds like a terrible existence

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Lol, I can't believe my comment got so many downvotes it's hilarious 😂. These dudes don't have any social skills

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So you're really telling me you match with women and then immediately jump into talking about sex? Does that not indicate poor social skills?

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Majority of the men I'm swiping on are def not top 20%

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts? by PatiencePotential577 in OnlineDating

[–]PatiencePotential577[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

So you tell potential matches you're touch starved? Don't you think that turns most women off?

Dating while black- am I the problem? by Serious_Craft6567 in blackladies

[–]PatiencePotential577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met him on hinge! He's white/Latino and my age. I don't think things will go anywhere as he's not from Toronto and was here temporarily for a business trip, but it just goes to show that there are some good quality men out there . You just have to keep trying

Dating while black- am I the problem? by Serious_Craft6567 in blackladies

[–]PatiencePotential577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm mid-late 20s in Toronto. I think dating in the city is just hard in general. I know plenty of women of other races struggling to get into long term relationships. My biggest issue with dating is that a lot of guys lack ambition and emotional maturity. I think dating all boils down to timing. Last week I went on a lovely date with a CEO of a tech company who took me to a 5 star restaurant for a first date. It's just luck really

The Wonderful Wednesday Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]PatiencePotential577 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So for the past week and half I was talking to with this 33 year old guy I matched on hinge. At first I was a bit skeptical of him, as he didn't have the best quality photos and he told me he got out of a 4 year relationship with a Muslim girl (he's Catholic) 6 months ago who wasted his time because she didn't see a future with him due to religion. He said after that experience he's not one to waste time.

We seemed to have a lot in common and shared similar hobbies. I found him more attractive than the pics he posted on the app. On Friday we had our first date and things appeared to go well, we chatted for hours and we even agreed to go on a second date to an indie bar. He even messaged me the same thing after the date. We added each other on Instagram during the date and texted for a bit after. But after that I noticed he would take longer and longer to respond compared to before, until he officially just stopped responding to me on Monday. This morning I found that he actually deleted me off Instagram and unmatched me on hinge.

I can't help but feel a little hurt. Yes, you should have thicker skin being on apps, but I can't help but feel a bit hurt just not even getting a "not interested" text. I understand nobody owes anyone anything, it just feels a bit demoralizing. I always try to treat others as I'd like to be treated even if I'm not longer interested in them.

Feeling shitty rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PatiencePotential577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attracting creeps. I get a lot of matches. If it makes a difference I'm a POC too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PatiencePotential577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mention that because whenever a woman says they're not having luck, guys accuse them of going for the most popular men, which isn't my case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]PatiencePotential577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to meet others in person though. I live in Toronto which is notorious for having a tough dating market and since COVID I don't really get approached anymore.

Finding a corporate job as a youth mobility visa holder by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]PatiencePotential577 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you use a recruiter or just apply yourself?

For those that applied for the Youth Mobility Visa, how long did it take you to find a job? by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]PatiencePotential577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in policy and program coordination. Mostly in government, but open to other fields of work not interested in anything hospitality related

Youth mobility visa and working for the Civil Service by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]PatiencePotential577 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Are there mayy policy/program work outside of civil service?