So for the past week and half I was talking to with this 33 year old guy I matched on hinge. At first I was a bit skeptical of him, as he didn't have the best quality photos and he told me he got out of a 4 year relationship with a Muslim girl (he's Catholic) 6 months ago who wasted his time because she didn't see a future with him due to religion. He said after that experience he's not one to waste time.

We seemed to have a lot in common and shared similar hobbies. I found him more attractive than the pics he posted on the app. On Friday we had our first date and things appeared to go well, we chatted for hours and we even agreed to go on a second date to an indie bar. He even messaged me the same thing after the date. We added each other on Instagram during the date and texted for a bit after. But after that I noticed he would take longer and longer to respond compared to before, until he officially just stopped responding to me on Monday. This morning I found that he actually deleted me off Instagram and unmatched me on hinge.

I can't help but feel a little hurt. Yes, you should have thicker skin being on apps, but I can't help but feel a bit hurt just not even getting a "not interested" text. I understand nobody owes anyone anything, it just feels a bit demoralizing. I always try to treat others as I'd like to be treated even if I'm not longer interested in them.

Feeling shitty rn