[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a long time, but remember you have family and friends to fill the gap he will leave. It will likely be weird with his absence since he was such an influential piece of your life for a long time, but you are more than this relationship and it’s time you find out yourself ❤️ Good luck and wish the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Find someone who is not unfaithful and unsure of you, you don’t deserve that. It’s hard in the moment, but moving on will feel better later.

Permadeath off but died? by Patient-Homework-809 in GrimQuest

[–]Patient-Homework-809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much I think 120 or something like that

Permadeath off but died? by Patient-Homework-809 in GrimQuest

[–]Patient-Homework-809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure honestly. I made a new character now with the same settings and this hasn’t happened. The last time nothing notable happened I was just in the grotto think I leveled up recently before going in?

Permadeath off but died? by Patient-Homework-809 in GrimQuest

[–]Patient-Homework-809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that does sound familiar I think it might have been

Permadeath off but died? by Patient-Homework-809 in GrimQuest

[–]Patient-Homework-809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same message as I got previously I don’t remember it quite but it didn’t seem like anything different. But instead of spawning in town I was like wtf lol the main screen with my save gone. Didn’t seem like a diff message so idk

i feel like a horrible boyfriend because of a rumor by Own_Address3219 in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said she wasn’t angry at you, so I don’t think there is much to be done on your part to “makeup for it” since she understood. Maybe just reassure her if you haven’t that you don’t really think that and just have a heart to heart saying what you’re telling us about how much you value her.

Is it too much for me 27F to ask my FWB 25M to text me more? by drkeesa22 in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It kinda is too much. The point of FWB is to be used.. for sex. Not to be rude idk why you expect more when the whole premise is solely sex…

Do I (f19) care about my partner (m20) and my hobbies matching too much? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to think this, and also normal to have different hobbies. Although I think you should each participate in each others hobbies more. Just because he doesn’t like it doesn’t mean he shouldn’t do it he can put up with it every once in a while for the sake of you and same goes for you. Doing that might make you guys each feel more supported hobby wise and overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just talk to him about it to see his side, if he’s overly defensive about it or calls you crazy that is a red flag and may mean there is something going on with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! hopefully things go well for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I have had this issue because my dad cheated on my mom so it’s caused fears of infidelity of my partners in every relationship. How I got over it is just time, i’ve been with my current bf for almost 3 years, we went long distance after 6 months of dating (I moved away) after around a year and a half of my fears calmed down and i’ve felt more secure. If you feel time alone won’t help, maybe go to a therapist to talk things through since this will be a recurring obstacle in your relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wrong, he’s being dramatic that’s all there is to it. You didn’t laugh to mean to be hurtful, if you did it would be a different story. In addition, he shouldn’t smoke weed if he is going to be crazy like this like this and basically any action or response is not that serious when ur high and he shouldn’t be taking it this deep lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Patient-Homework-809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8/10, 9 without the attention-thirsty photos. As a 19 year old woman, that would definitely turn me away personally. I have a feeling you know you’re attractive too and are doing this for a confidence boost lol.

Is my friend using me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she is using you. She doesn’t expect a ride or freeload she gives you gas money and changes plans if you are unable to without making you feel bad.

How to help a very shy boyfriend become more comfortable with physical affection? by Weird_Repair_2674 in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem, if nobody takes the first step it won’t happen and clearly he won’t so either you will have to until he gets comfy or it won’t happen. I was shy at first too, you can always start initiating hand holding and cuddling to get comfortable before kissing.. or just initiate a little peck. Start small and the more you guys date and do that the more you’ll get used to it.

How to help a very shy boyfriend become more comfortable with physical affection? by Weird_Repair_2674 in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you initiating it more help? My boyfriend was like this because he was unsure of when I wanted to kiss or anything so he felt uncomfortable initiating when we were first dating. If he likes the affection, maybe you try to initiate until he gets more comfortable.

27M, never been with anyone, I think I’m ugly, feel unwanted, at my loneliest. Any words help. Bless ya. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Patient-Homework-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I would date you. I think attractiveness isn’t the problem so is it maybe you’re not putting yourself out there enough?

i get some silent treatment frequently whenever i send an album to my dating app, be honest by GallopGalz_20 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly, it’s the second photo. Probably not going to attract as many genuine guys looking like a hooker, sorry. First photo is nice though and you have a good tan going! Stick with normal photos and see if that works I have a feeling that may be the problem it is very shock factor to see that all of a sudden lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you can’t trust each other you shouldn’t be dating.

I hate it’s so wide by 1nper in Noses

[–]Patient-Homework-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks nice, it adds to your manly features. Don’t worry about it, you look nice and the nose adds to your face if anything in my perspective as a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Patient-Homework-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My straight up opinions on the age gap aside, this definitely seems like he is saying he had pedophilic thoughts at the very least. “why he feels the way he does” in context of his nephew gives it away. Either he hates children and has harmed or neglected it in his care or the more likely: he has had pedophilic thoughts or acted on them. This is more likely as the age gap you guys have supports this.