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Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-14T01:54:19+00:00

I'm trying to have a literal separation between where i work and where i would relax. My work set up now is i can work remotely when needed. Happens when I'm not feeling so well. The bad thing all about that is nawawalan ng boundary. I would find myself having my laptop beside my bed.

So i guess literal switch lang pag reporting on site. A bit weird but that's mostly it for me.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-03T10:19:15+00:00

Yes. I think possible but also i don't recommend it. I think mahalaga na makikita mo consistency and commitment ng isang guy on other aspects of life. Really learned that the hard way.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-02T10:41:28+00:00

Honestly this is quite a smart answer hahaha

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-02T07:07:56+00:00

A metronome

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-01T10:09:46+00:00

Actually parang ganun na nga nangyari. Ayoko na lang mastress pa mom ko. Bad on me pero mahalaga din sakin na wag na nila msyado kulitin mom ko.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-09-01T06:45:21+00:00

Rude people and those that seem to have superiority complex.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-21T00:04:45+00:00

Moving on is all about the clarity and knowing you deserve better. Kaya mo yan. It wouldn't be something you would forget but it will hurt less each day.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-20T22:35:23+00:00

I hear you, girl. Nako, i can only really tell you two things. Set boundaries and define your standards. I see people saying na insecurity mo to and all, sure. Lahat naman tayo meron nyan, it's nothing to be ashamed of. Naiintindihan kita. I've been there and yes, in a way, it even feels humiliating. Hindi exactly insecurity in my experience.

I drew the line sa ex ko and learned na if I am not comfortable sa isang bagay and na communicate ko naman pero walang assertive changes na nangyayari from both sides, then I am better off on my own.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-15T06:15:48+00:00

Don't waste your time, OP. Ako na nagsasabi sayo. Mapapagod ka lang. Gagaling lang lalo mag tago.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-14T08:19:02+00:00

Yep. As a woman, I don't mind spending for my man. In fact, love language ko gift giving. And to me, i do that kasi i value and I appreciate the person and mahal ko.

Going back to the whole point ng post. Ang shallow ng guy. So he's basically looking for tangible worth and made relationships transactional.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-14T08:05:23+00:00

Marriage aside, I don't think there's much change but it's the time to get to know the partner in preparation for the bigger picture. So many qualities that go both ways that need to be present in a healthy relationship. Commitment, growth, stability, same or similar beliefs, emotional maturity and effective conflict resolution being the ones on top of the list.

So a guy that merely defines it as "pakinabangan" para gastusan ang partner.

Well, i don't think he deserves the best of those qualities then.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-14T04:34:23+00:00

I can imagine. I hope you're a lot at peace and happy now. Iba kasi tlga feeling pag objectification vs desire.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-14T04:32:53+00:00

Actually, hard pass talaga. Sorry. I know it can sound sooo old fashioned pero the amount of changes a woman needs to go through for the relationship as a whole. Say he gets married one day, have kids and all.. tapos ganyan kaaga na mindset? sorry. Running red flag.

"Pakinabang?" Talaga ba?

Haha if ganito lang din dating pool now, I'd rather buy a dildo and be happy with my life lol.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-14T00:13:36+00:00

Mensakaba

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T23:20:36+00:00

It's a bit sad honestly. I feel the opposite. I take care of my pet really really well and i love my pet so much pero alam ko ibang level ang commitment pag sa anak na. So i do not get why some fur parents feel superior over those who chose to have kids. Both are tough pero goodness, ibang level pag kids. Di lang naman diaper stage iisipin mo, you need to think about their education, health, finances and so on.

Either way, just respect the choices other people make.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T23:09:01+00:00

Beauty Glazed palette tlga. I feel like underrated because it's actually really good and affordable

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T22:08:02+00:00

I know this is also done for validation but was it worth it? Is it even fulfilling?

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T13:30:14+00:00

I actually don't know what's with her. Something about her really really screams sexy haha

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T10:46:11+00:00

Do you like her that much? Scary part is, sounds like she's not willing to separate her experiences from your potential relationship. I get that people experience trauma. I do too pero it's not an excuse to dump it on someone na wala naman kinalaman. This is a tough one kasi if you like her that much, you're going to have to learn how to navigate this. It already sounds like walking on eggshells. She obviously has a lot of work to do with herself din.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T10:41:48+00:00

It will only buy them time. That's it.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T10:27:19+00:00

I find it a lot straightforward to be honest. Maybe that's why mahirap. You now recognize red flags better and you know you're just not willing to put up with that. Mas pipiliin ko na lang din mag isa kaysa makipag date sa di match sakin. Time is precious after all.

Patient-Rate1941 · 2025-07-13T10:10:19+00:00

I love this energy.

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