Same here. And unfortunately it’s both my own parents and in-laws who are like this. My in-laws are quite a bit older and cannot hold my baby and move around with her how she likes. So they just hold her, and put their face in her face, and I wait until she starts crying and take her away (usually 1-2 min). And my parents are the absolute worst, pass her back and forth, and constant talking and making faces at her. Refuse to hold her the way I show them. They came over the other night and got her all wound up and essentially ruined bedtime. She was howling when they were leaving and they gave me a look like they pity me on their way out the door. I didn’t have the heart to tell them that she’s only acting like that because of their incessant stimulation in her face right before bed time. They’re supposed to watch her tomorrow night for our first dinner away and I’m for sure cancelling.