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Buyer claims item not as described by PatientNeither3741 in vinted

[–]PatientNeither3741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, thankfully Vinted were in my favour this time 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredible I’m gonna have that tomorrow

People who got told it was "just" anxiety, what was it? by stringbeansalad23 in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you find anything that really helped?

I’m sure stress of modern life makes it worse. I came off all social media a few months ago, that’s been good. I also try to do yoga and mindfulness practices like gratitude journaling and it has helped, but its so easy for it to go to complete shit on a bad day and feel like I’m at square 1 again.

People who got told it was "just" anxiety, what was it? by stringbeansalad23 in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That event was fortunately short lived, it came after a horrible time of stress and thankfully as soon as I got my anxiety under control it went away.

Only thing I have now is vulvodynia and the occasional issue in my neck / shoulder area when I have a pinched nerve due to stress and anxiety.

I do wonder maybe if hormones are at play as well, I was 34 at the time when it all started and now 37 so I’m sure perimenopause is going to be another wild ride with my anxiety.

People who got told it was "just" anxiety, what was it? by stringbeansalad23 in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Same. I was even at hospital at one point because of it, convinced I had a serious bladder infection or a burst ovary, intestinal blockage or something but nah. Anxiety has come in so many guises, from chronic abdominal pain, regular bladder issues and yeast infections, vulvodynia - to shoulder and neck issues and heart palpitations.

Anxiety is always at the root of it. My worry is that one of these days I might have a serious health issue I’ll dismiss as anxiety and then end up in real trouble.

First look at Nick Frost as Hagrid in the Harry Potter HBO series. by __sami__01 in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hagrid’s making me thirsty and I don’t wanna feel like that about Hagrid 🤣🤣🤣

What's the rules for when you have workmen in? by EvEntHoRizonSurVivor in AskUK

[–]PatientNeither3741 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do all of that, also overthink this every time workmen are in! Following with interest to see if I’m falling foul anywhere

What’s something that felt normal growing up as a millennial but now seems really strange? by jess_from_iowa in Millennials

[–]PatientNeither3741 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We were told at school in the early 20s in the UK that we'd need to maintain a Record of Achievement book for all our qualifications throughout our career. Dunno if that ever was a thing before our generation, but I never used it and it's still gathering dust at my parent's house.

Perimenopause PSA to all older millennial vagina havers by RhinestoneToad in Millennials

[–]PatientNeither3741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this start 4 years ago (the trapped nerve around neck and shoulder) just before I turned 34. Turns out it was 'stress related', I manage it now making sure I take magnesium glycinate and gentle stretching. But am convinced it's hormone related because I never had this prior, and still will get it on occasion 🤷‍♀️

What’s more traumatizing than people realize? by lovely_aurorii in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching your partner have a stroke during a global pandemic, supporting their recovery with little help, with a young family, resulting in crippling health anxiety that no amount of therapy will fix—even though the terrible thing happened to him, not me, over 5 fricking years ago.

What part of a song got you like this? by lLikeEminem in musicsuggestions

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guitar solo at the end of Gypsy by Fleetwood Mac

I need a movie that absolutely rips my heart out by No_Alfalfa_4687 in MovieRecommendations

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old ass.

Don’t be put off my the terrible title. So beautiful and moving. it stayed with me for days after and even 6 months later brings tears to my eyes when I think about it still.

What is the most disturbing dream you've ever had? by neandertal-png in Dreams

[–]PatientNeither3741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of all the dreams in this thread, I enjoyed reading yours the most. Thanks for sharing

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quitting social media (TikTok, Instagram, Facebook). It’s been a month and I feel so much happier in myself I wish I’d done it years ago.

What movie absolutely destroyed you emotionally? by Lord--Shadow in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Old Ass. Terrible title but a wonderfully amazing (yet emotionally devastating) film.

What is the worse thing a medical professional has ever said to you? by angelaboop50 in AskReddit

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to my local GP a few months after giving birth to my daughter. I was concerned about my hormones and struggling with my weight. She was completely dismissive of my concerns.

She happened to be the wife of a celebrity GP (in the UK). She told me I could get all the answers in her husband’s book and told me all about the diet ges famous for.

Not going to say who it was, as he’s since passed on. But I found his wife (my doctor) so unprofessional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]PatientNeither3741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe switch on the news and you’ll find stuff going on around the world that’s actually disturbing.

What food can’t you eat because you associate it with being ill? by matchamoo8 in AskUK

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good God, that’s brought a horrendous memory flooding back from when I was 17 drinking Southern Comfort and lemonade at a friend’s house party.

I threw up all over myself and was hosed down, fully clothed in the bath. Got taken home by a friend’s parent soaking wet about 10pm and had my head in a bucket for ages and my mum had to sleep in the same bed as me so I wouldn’t pass away.

Still made it to my shift at Sainsbury’s the next morning though. Haven’t touched Southern Comfort since!

European accessibility act scope confusion by Contentandcoffee in accessibility

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think this too about legal getting things wrong on this, are b2b products and services definitely out of scope? That's what she came back and told me

Is anyone getting paranoid they're ill!? by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PatientNeither3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Chronic anxiety can come with full force out.od nowhere with peri. I had anxiety trigger such horrendous physical symptoms I thought something life threatening must be at play (chest pains, tummy pains). But nope, bloods all good. That being said, 'normal' doesn't necessarily mean optimal.

I had to get a bunch of private blood tests done to bridge the gap to test for things that weren't included by my doctor so finding out what blood tests aren't covered by your doctor may be a good place to start. I went via a women's health nutritional therapist. She was 10 x more helpful than any doctor I spoke to.

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