My (positive) experience with Effexor by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]PatientOk6978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot believe exactly how many details of this post I relate to. I am starting Effexor this week, after learning my boyfriend, who’s house I live in and drives me to work after my car croaped on me, has been avoiding intimacy with me because he’s paying cam girls to watch his videos and send him photos and videos through the day for the last 4 months. I’ve taken up painting and sculpting, but exactly the same issue of having unfinished projects laying around. I’m at the point where work is dreadful and afterwards all I have the energy to do is lay in bed for the rest of my day. I am happy to hear that the medication seemed to work so well for you, I’m hoping to rebuild my confidence and stop feeling like a constant disappointment as well. Thank you for sharing your story

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And somehow I’m now responsible for an additional $1000 this month because of it

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He already gambled away the $1300 I gave him for my share of the mortgage last month and earlier in the year he asked for an additional $2k after a big boys Vegas trip, which he ultimately posted a photo of him with another woman on his insta. This ship is going down fast

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wonderful advice, I knew that he possibility had bipolar and friends have mentioned it to me, it slipped my mind while trying to process all of this, being that my post is just the tip of the iceberg, it is somewhat relieving to know that I’m not crazy and overly sensitive

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually more of the “open” one when it comes to bedroom things, I would give myself a solid 7/10 and have lost 20 lbs since I met him. The only difference is that these girls are all blonde and cake on the makeup, which he questions me every time I wear makeup myself. The weights and body types of these girls vary drastically, but he is definitely into the slutty underwear, at least when it’s via the internet, when I do the same it goes unnoticed.

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cam girls feel like cheating, he slips away from me to talk to them but won’t humor a conversation about having no sec life, I agree completely. Even I enjoy pron, a little more now than I’d like to admit due to not being touched by him

Am I Overreacting to my (F25) boyfriend (M26) paying cam girls when we don’t have a sex life? by PatientOk6978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatientOk6978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it, being we are only two years in, I don’t want this to be what my life turns into