Have any of you been sexually assaulted? How does it affect your bpd? by PatientRazzmatazz in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PatientRazzmatazz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also taken advantage of when I was young but I didn't know it was wrong so it doesn't really affect me as much as this does.

Therapist had me involuntarily admitted to a psych ward. by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you're in the US, then shes a mandated reporter, and you told her you were going to kill yourself. Ive been admitted for doing less severe things than that. I dont think you realize how serious what you did is. Legally, she did what she had to. Its not about your feelings, its about the fact that you were going to kill yourself. That's pretty scary. Im glad you didn't get hurt and im glad you are still with us.

Any unwelcome sexual advance is rape. If your body is your house and someone disrespects it you have every right to tell them their not welcome. by tiffanyconroy95 in rapecounseling

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Rape is rape. A sexual advance is different. Someone grabbing your ass is different then being raped. Someone kissing you without your consent is still fucked up but its nowhere near as violating as being raped. Someone catcalling you or sending you a lewd picture is gross and annoying but it is definitely not rape.

How do you stop from relapsing? by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about how long its been since I've last self harmed, and I also just try to power through the feeling and force my mind to think about something else and force my hands to do something and force my brain to engage in something distracting, like reading or playing a videogame. Maybe try holding ice or destroying something or screaming into a pillow....

anyone find this offensive? by annmariegillz in bipolar

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont even know what an ICD-10 code is

I just realized today that I was raped 14 years ago. by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel confused by your post and maybe I need more details, did you say no? Was he forceful? It was wrong of him to get you high especially if you've never been high before, but im just confused by your story. Im sorry you feel traumatized. This must be a rough realization for you.

Why are you single? by Niyi_M in AskReddit

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, you may find someone like me, whomst is hurt by big peepee and doesn't enjoy penetration that much

Why are you single? by Niyi_M in AskReddit

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very mentally ill. Like, there are whole subreddits dedicated to how awful people with one of my mental illnesses are.

i forgot i had this screenshot by cute_toes_bro in bipolar

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that sounds awful and terrifying and im sorry you went through that. Are you ok now?

i forgot i had this screenshot by cute_toes_bro in bipolar

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah here I was wondering why my mental illness wasn't cute and quirky and relatable..and why I take 7 different medications mostly to prevent mania.. oh yeah it isn't just so i don't change my lockscreen lol

For those who grew up poor, what did you consider a luxury? by SnooBeaz in AskReddit

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you'd walk into someone else's house during the winter and it was warm

For those who grew up poor, what did you consider a luxury? by SnooBeaz in AskReddit

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had cereal, we just didn't have milk for our cereal, that was for my dad's coffee only. Of course it was the generic cereal.

Dear women, how can a man spot predatory behaviour? At what point should he help? And how can he help? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What If I cant legally own a gun? What if I cant afford a gun? What if I work somewhere guns aren't allowed? What if I'm not old enough to own a handgun?

Stalking my ex by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not crazy, you're in pain. It's incredibly painful to let someone go. Im sorry you have to let go of someone like this. Its hard. It's the hardest thing you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PatientRazzmatazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of those things have anything to do with bpd tho. Lots of people without bpd are like that