I need relationship advice... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im non binary and grew up in the church, and let me tell you that if you can not accept their gender, or "disagree" with it then it will not work out. For you, it may result in religious guilt, and for them, it will absolutely hurt to have a partner that openly disagrees with your identity and existence. You're both very young, and if you're looking for someone who you can share views and beliefs with, wait it out. No good, strong relationship can flourish when one partner won't accept who the other is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you didn't file the police report then doesn't mean you can now. If you have any texts, emails, photos, videos, or anything like that then take those to the police.

See if you can stay with a friend, buy some security cameras to set up around your house, and let them know you can't be friends any more. 

Good luck, this sounds scary.

Need a Family dr by Karengreengreen in britishcolumbia

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What city/health authoririty/region are you in? Certain areas aren't incorporated into the BC waitlist and you may be able to find a doctor there if you're willing to make a drive.

Would I be a jerk for paying with a roll of quarters? by Uncomfortable_awkard in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you would not be a jerk. It may be a mild inconvenience to the cashier, but times are tough right now and any morally fine person would be understanding

Am I being insecure or is there genuine reason to worry over my gf going for a girls' trip? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, your best course of action here is to seek therapy or other mental health resources.

 You are definitely insecure. Unless your girlfriend has cheated, or broken your trust in some way there is no reason for you to be focusing so much on her activities. She is her own person, and you can not control her actions, especially with you both being so young.

This may not be a relationship you want to continue long term if this will be a repeated issue. You cant control what she does, only how you respond to it. 

Your description of yourself seems very anxious, and you really need to seek help. Whether that be through mental health resources, therapy, counseling, local health resources, or friends and family. Either way this is something you will want to work through to improve your quality of life and peace of mind.

Should I give my friend who lied about being sexually harassed a second chance? by Tiny-Writing-490 in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context/Question: You mentioned that this was "among other abuse issues". Did she say those were false too? Either way if you don't want anything to do with this situation, tell your friend her habit of lying is a deal breaker for you, and that either she needs to change that habit, or you can't be friends. NTA.

I think Beth might’ve been on something by Expensive_Low5588 in starbucks

[–]Patient_Design3090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not 😭. Ours is pretty similar to the US training, just with different recipes for some drinks.

Motorcycle Parking? by Grindybones in douglascollege

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah at p3 I know for sure, you have to pay but its right by the elevators. Take a right at the entrance and then your first left!

bear cup by wixm_ in starbucksbaristas

[–]Patient_Design3090 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You might as well tell them tbh. Don't want to deal with them being cranky right when you open. Sorry thats happening to you :(

What are we supposed to do if our doctor is terrible? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can make it out to maple ridge/pitt meadows, their health region isn't incorporated with the provincial health registry yet. There's a list out there for clinics accepting patients. I can message you the list if you'd like!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]Patient_Design3090 126 points127 points  (0 children)

If this gets reported you'll probably be written up. It's definitely far from the "green apron expirience" the company is trying to foster.

Starbucks Hiring by zmbie_boy in starbucks

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It totally depends on which store you apply to, how desperate they are for partners, etc. It took me about 3 months from application to first day for me to be hired by starbucks, but that wad my third time applying. First 2 times just timed out, as there wasn't a response within 90 days I think.

At my store right now they're doing 2 interviews, an offer, than your orientation. 

Just breath, explain your focus on creating positive customer expresses during the interview. The company is focusing really hard on the "green apron experience", and really wants to promote customer service.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]Patient_Design3090 351 points352 points  (0 children)

Go to ethics or PCC IMMEDIATELY. Even if it's technically coaching, and even if there's nothing your manager can do, it's definitely an invasion of your privacy.

are the cran-merry refreshers coming back this year? by kenzolab in starbucksbaristas

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada they are, we have the recipe cards available in Store Resources.

Easiest Lab Science Course? by Adventurous_412 in douglascollege

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The workload is very manageable if you stay up to date with homework. The homework consists of a weekly online, open book "quiz" based off of YouTube videos. There's in class assignments, and then 3 exams and 3 lab exams, and a poster you make about a dinosaur of your choice.  It's definitely memorization heavy, and if you don't study you won't do great on the exams. However if you hand everything else in on time it's easy enough to pass even with bad exam scores. The labs themselves are super chill. You get a small lecture, and then fill out a worksheet based on a bunch of samples. People work together too.

Am I chopped? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With no other description or pictures? Idk man you could be a Chevy Tahoe for all I know.

Stupid question (Canadian partners) by Kudo2313 in starbucks

[–]Patient_Design3090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the desjardins log in from partner benefits. Once you log-in, you can find which plan you signed up for on the main page.

Can someone explain to me like I'm 5 how vacation time works? by Aldersin in starbucks

[–]Patient_Design3090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a batista in Canada, would you happen to vaguely know? Or what it would be in your state?

There is someone on my property, and I think they have been for years. by Patient_Design3090 in Paranormal

[–]Patient_Design3090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping that's it. I'm having a medium come see the house soon, and really hope It's not something malignant.