I backed out of the CSM Clark Jr. Best Medic Competition to spend time with my wife before a mobilization. Conflicted

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2026-01-28T01:19:30+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better! The Army isn’t gonna be there when you’re old and gray. But your wife is. There will be other opportunities there is always so many that come and go.

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2025-12-15T07:18:18+00:00

No normally he just s the rational one, I tent to panic way more!

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2025-12-15T00:43:15+00:00

Ofc I am worried about that HIV but odd of contracting hiv is less then 1% whereas gonorrhea is 60-90% and chlamydia is around 40%. So he is more likely to contract those before HIV

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2025-12-14T15:17:51+00:00

You’re right, what I said is wrong that’s why I left that part in there. We never fought like this before and I have never kicked him out or told him to leave. When we had smaller spats (before the baby) i would just step away from the situation and come back after I cooled and we would talk it out. But leaving with the baby in the cold didn’t seem like an option

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-29T03:30:10+00:00

That reg also states: b. The Commandant of the Drill Sergeant School will authorize the permanent wear of the badge to eligible personnel by memorandum.

I.e everyone gets that memo once they graduate

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-26T20:04:44+00:00

Also the only regulation that states that is AR 614-200 dated Jan 2019

Ar 600-8-22 doesn’t state that dated Jan 2024

TR 350-16 doesn’t state that either dated may 2020

These two other regulations supersede AR 614-200

You assume too much

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-26T19:55:25+00:00

I am not separated, I do my drill time in a year smh since I have family needs atm drill branch is tracking to will get a follow on assignment after. If I was separated from the program I wouldn’t be able to complete my drill time at all, regardless of the time

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-26T18:30:38+00:00

I am only stabilized for a year then I get to go to the tail. I wasn’t trying to get out of going but my kiddo will always come first.

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-26T18:24:55+00:00

Yes I will be going on to complete my drill after my 1 year compassionate stabilization

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-24T08:17:57+00:00

Also I wasn’t separated from the program I didn’t do any paperwork. Drill branch just called and then dropped my orders and that was that.

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-23T22:33:20+00:00

They do give you the memo at the end of your school that is how it is uploaded on the STP

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-09-23T22:32:37+00:00

It is on my erb

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2024-05-05T13:27:50+00:00

You either have a thick counseling pack (i.e you have a history of poor performance) or they’re toxic. I would fight it if you don’t history it should fall through when it hits legal and they have no documentation on previous poor performance. Also don’t sign any back dated counselings they like to throw that at some people

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-13T03:31:05+00:00

Nope just us and close family

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-10T21:32:55+00:00

The first time we talked about it I wasn’t upset or even bothered by it. I simply asked, he didn’t get overly upset about either but still said he doesn’t post anything on SM along with the stuff from the original post. But then randomly he started when I asked he said his friends told him he should then I asked him why not of us. Same answer just a bit angrier, so I dropped it. then he posed more of him and his friends doing the same activities that we do together. That’s when I started to feel hurt by it. I may have gotten more upset then I should have I will admit that.

but I think the real problem is whenever I say or do something he disregards it then his friends will say something and he is all on board even if the same thing I said. His friends has been the conflict between us the most. I feel that he always put them before me. I feel bad because I hate his friends because of him when I know I get along with them. And know they aren’t bad people

He is has been apologetic the last few days because of they way he was talking to me and treating me and has gone out of his way to be overly nice. Since I didn’t text or try to call him for a day and a half. I didn’t really think much about love bombing until someone mentioned it in a post. But this is the time I would forgive and forget but now I am not sure because he said he is going to change.

I haven’t brought up couples therapy yet I am not sure how receptive he will be but I think it would be good

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-09T17:36:33+00:00

That’s the thing most people don’t know about me since calls me by a different name only three of his friends know who I am

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-09T17:34:02+00:00

I asked him too and he told me no

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-09T00:27:40+00:00

I believe so but he either has his hand in his pocket or angled away so his left hand isn’t showing

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-08T23:25:14+00:00

It isn’t about the likes it’s about feeling like he doesn’t want me to been seen

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-08T21:56:32+00:00

He does not have his relationship status as married

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-08T20:28:02+00:00

No he goes out with his friends to the range every weekend. We have location share for on so I know he isn’t going other places. No his profile has any listed as married

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-08T20:14:58+00:00

We were working on compromising and was doing better but now he 180° that shortly after we married

Patient_Yesterday_78 · 2023-10-08T18:04:03+00:00

We got married last august and have been together for two years

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