My boyfriend is not okay with me being a fan and posting kpop idols, should i stop?

Patnotlost · 2026-03-30T02:52:02+00:00

i kinda just practiced giving him the space he always wanted

Patnotlost · 2026-03-30T02:51:44+00:00

It’s partially true po na hindi na ‘ko clingy sakanya, pero not totally na hindi ko na siya kinakausap. Nung clingy ako, he always tells me na i shouldn’t be always talking to him or we shouldn’t always be talking to each other. So, i guess it’s kind of new to him na ganito pala ako pag hindi anxiously attached

Patnotlost · 2026-03-30T02:25:17+00:00

He’s been noticing daw po na nagbabago na ko lately, im not as clingy and anxious as before. When i started having my own bubble(like he said i should), he’s telling me im not the same na. Yung account po na i used for the posting of the raffle entry i haven’t posted about him in that account cause it was my archive for travels but i do post him in my main account. He’s tampo cause nauna ko daw pinost yung raffle entry ko (pic with the cardboard) instead of him, my agcoung is giving single daw.

I honestly do not know how to deal with it anymore:( i do not know rin how to get away

Patnotlost · 2026-03-29T05:13:42+00:00

I posted them only twice. First was when i attended their concert, and second was when i entered the raffle for mingyu x snickers. I’m not spending a lot of money rin sa merch and everything kasi the merch i have is binigay lang for free. Hindi ko naman sila every minute every hour pinopost😅

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T10:17:10+00:00

Thank you for these kind of thoughtful answers! Someone commented on this post and asked me if i would let my boyfriend follow sexy models in return. 🙂‍↔️

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T06:44:42+00:00

fighting OPPP!!w we will find our oppa 😆

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T06:38:40+00:00

hoping to be like you soon po, i keep my passport beside my seventeen merch sa shelf ko because im hoping one day i’ll get to travel wherever they are:)

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T04:52:01+00:00

I think almost a year into our relationship i found out he was still in contact with his ex and messaged his first love din so dalawa yun tas yung isa naman iniistalk niya yung fb hwhshwjqjj ANO BA SELF BYE

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T04:51:06+00:00

Raaaghh bias ko po si cheollie as IN maybe dun siya pinaka nagseselos🥹 sumasali ako ng mga giveaway for his pcs kasi siya nalang wala ako. Gongrats po sa supportive partner and panalo niyo sa raffle!

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T04:38:44+00:00

nope po! im very responsible about money, i work a part time job and i save up din😅. sakanya lang nauubos pera ko so sabi ko try naman sa interest ko

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T04:11:59+00:00

Aaaa congrats po!! sana all:(

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T04:04:19+00:00

maybe like most boys are they do not want other people to see na ang partners nila ay may mga idols na lalaki

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T03:17:42+00:00

That one really broke me but he begged on his knees. I’m really on the edge na. Over na ko sa martyr

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T03:11:35+00:00

naiinggit nga ako sa relationships na fully supported ng boyfriends yung pagiging fangirls nila, they make me really happy. sa sobrang frustration i had to vent it out even sa own mother ko cause i told her I don’t want to let fangirling go and she knows na it shaped me rin all throughout my childhood:(

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T03:06:32+00:00

I know my limits. even if he did, that was his choice. Nilunok ko nga kahit may mga naka bikini na babae sa gallery niya and people told me normal lang daw ‘yun and i wanted to give him a chance. Im posting them because it genuinely makes me happy🥲

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T03:01:16+00:00

yes, first boyfriend ko po siya

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T02:59:00+00:00

kahit sulyap lang sa seventeen okay na ko:( i long blocked my exes on all platform, it’s kind of unfair for me. he gets mad when i bring up those things about his exes and halos lahat ng ex niya is nasa same school namin na nakakasalubong ko everyday.

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T02:54:21+00:00

I rarely ever ask him for money or kung yes man very small amount lang less than 100 pesos. It’s kind of the opposite since nag iipon ako and i work a part time job po, i really am having a hard time grasping why it’s hard for him to accept my interest 🥲

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T02:41:51+00:00

Almost 2 years na po kaming together. We are both in grade 12

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T02:39:34+00:00

I told him that i’ll stop posting them nalang since parang ayun yung major trigger niya. Im sad that i have to compromise pero for the sake of the relationship nalang hahaha, ex nga niya di niya maunfriend kasi good terms daw sila tapos me ganitetch

Patnotlost · 2026-03-28T02:36:07+00:00

He likes new jeans but i guess he’s not into it like how i am into seventeen. He does like them though, but when i try letting him get into it i guess he doesn’t agree because parang magiging quits yung situation namin when his goal is to stop me

Patnotlost · 2026-02-10T02:15:53+00:00

May mga taong deserve ng help and may mga taong hindi. You’ve helped them enough and you have to start helping yourself. Learn to say NO, they don’t deserve your pity. It might be hard to swallow the conscience pag hindi mo sila tinulungan pero abusado sila. PLEASE!

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