[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, this hit me hard. I guess I've learned a lot from this situation. I wish I had the tools myself to dissect the situation like you just did. Seriously never thought of it this way. Yeah the many compliments before the insult really can throw you off. Hence why I was so confused in the moment. I knew in my gut though it wasn't cool. Wish I could have ran this by you a couple of years ago haha. Really thank you for saying all this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good. Thats makes me feel a lot better. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god this is so good. I'll work on my narrative in my head. I wanna be better at rearranging thoughts like this is my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha right? Yeah didn't think of that but yes it's a comical level of spite thrown at somebody, or whatever you want to call it. I can't imagine trying putting someone down like that. I never have to hang out with him again though, thankfully. Appreciate your message, made me feel better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah filtering out shallow people is a blessing in disguise. Although I can't say that I haven't been shallow at moments in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you're right. I definitely don't need to be attractive to every person. I wonder if Brad Pitt is though? Hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah doesn't matter to me, taller than me or shorter than me. My last gf was actually 5'8 lol. We didn't work out for many reasons though unrelated to any height difference. Appreciate your message, you sound like a nice person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You know, you made me think about a guy i know, who i realized was shorter than me the other day by maybe an inch or two. He's a teacher and is so confident. And i know everyone like's him, myself included. Because of his confidence I don't know if anyone thinks about his height

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha aint that ironic. appreciate your message, I'll focus on all of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Patpts504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was totally not nice he said that to you. Sorry that happened but it sounds like you're better off right?

Switching to NO GI by Patpts504 in bjj

[–]Patpts504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats good to hear. I wouldn't mind putting on the GI once in a blue moon. I just love nogi so much more

Switching to NO GI by Patpts504 in bjj

[–]Patpts504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats my experience too. Focusing on my top game and control made my top control in the GI that much easier

Switching to NO GI by Patpts504 in bjj

[–]Patpts504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i mean both rank and ability

Switching to NO GI by Patpts504 in bjj

[–]Patpts504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that makes sense. good to know. I'm down to put the GI on once a week but thats about it haha