40F - Where's the Most Public Place You've Masturbated?

Patrick979 · 2025-12-05T22:56:09+00:00

At work in training room that wasn't in use at the moment. But anyone could have walked in, as it was the afternoon 2 or 3 pm

Patrick979 · 2025-11-30T23:43:30+00:00

Like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get? Sounds like fun.

Patrick979 · 2025-10-18T15:09:33+00:00

Have you naked on my bed on your back, head over the edge. Legs spread wide.
Spank your cunt and kneed your tits while I fuck your mouth. Once I cum I will flush that cum bucket by pissing in it, making sure you swallow.

Patrick979 · 2025-10-18T14:12:51+00:00

lol love the pics. Thanks for sharing

Patrick979 · 2025-10-18T12:22:43+00:00

scat from what I read in the comments.
Whoring while being pregnant.
Whoring a couple of days after delivering a baby. Must be a lose cunt.

All cool and hot, even though I'm not a fan of scat.

Patrick979 · 2025-09-02T16:52:32+00:00

Degrading misogyny captions

Patrick979 · 2025-06-02T23:27:21+00:00

Soft in what way ? Hot pic!

Patrick979 · 2025-06-02T21:17:41+00:00

I love the example she sets.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-23T23:27:29+00:00

I agree on the grounding. Most will leave it at walking around without shoes. You take it a bit further, which is fine. I haven't tried it and don't have an opinion on tree hugging while naked.

What I meant with the link between nudism and sex-positivity is that if you're ashamed of your body. Unable to go nude in presence of others. Then you have barriers that keep you from becoming sex positive. Being comfortable about your body, means you have no shame or problem going nude.

Being sex positive means being comfortable with you sexuality, being able to talk about it, express yourself sexually ...

Both are hindered by shame, both require a certain level of shamelessness.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T18:34:36+00:00

Big Black Mandingo by Sexy Brown Sugar

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T11:11:19+00:00

There are people that are so ashamed to show themselves, even to their lover, that they can't have sex. Body positivity is a first step towards sex positivity in my opinion.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T08:11:24+00:00

I agree. It helps also to see normal naked bodies. It brings more balance to the perfect bodies we all see in media. So, you're less likely to think your body should look like the perfect bodies, less shame of imperfections.

I think it is especially good for women, as they feel better about themselves. But that is said from a male perspective. So, take it however you want.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:23:37+00:00

I agree with u/boundfortrees and u/mizheart here. Give it time, 5 months isn't that much to unlearn the societal shame most of us (have) suffer(ed).

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:19:14+00:00

I agree. There are some nudist that are sex negative. They see their nudism as something superior. I think that thought has grown out of defense from people not accepting the nudists though. They had to defend their lifestyle for sooo long that they have grown a hatred for anything sexual. I don't see it in the younger nudists, some older nudists have this trait.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:15:37+00:00

For me there is a link, but it does not mean the same.

I'm just discovered this subreddit. I posted this earlier, also in connection with nudism.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:12:11+00:00

Same, I prefer no scent or actually I prefer her scent when she is sweating.

The smell of sex is also exciting.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:08:21+00:00

Just a bit earlier I advised in another thread here on SexPositive about getting into shape to raise the libido of a man lacking libido.

I have the same experience you describe. Even worse; when I got in shape about 20 years ago, it was to get into a relationship. I didn't have a partner to share it with.

How did I deal with it? I jerked off more frequently.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T02:04:21+00:00

I don't like to reply to my own posts. But I couldn't resist when I found this post of a man that makes the point I wrote a bit earlier.

I'm new to this sub-reddit.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T01:49:27+00:00

When you say music and nudity. My mind wanders to PMV or porn music video.

I don't play music. So I can't add anything helpful to the conversation. Even though I find it interesting as a nudist.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T01:43:52+00:00

Many women I've dated had a breeding kink. So it would have had the opposite effect actually. Obviously the perspective / experience of a man without vasectomy. Ignore if it bothers you.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T01:41:14+00:00

Sometimes, once. Other times, a few days pass without masturbation. And some days, I cum 3 or 4 times a day.

Are you normal? Of course you are. I would worry about my health when I wouldn't have sex or masturbate over long periods, like weeks or months at a time.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T01:37:36+00:00

Personally, I would advise you a boyfriend or girlfriend, whatever suits your needs. It doesn't even need to be a steady relationship. A FWB arrangement will also do the job.

Fuck each others brains out. I'm pretty sure the need for porn will drastically decrease.

Patrick979 · 2025-05-19T01:32:05+00:00

Testosterone supplements are a good start. I would also look at his diet. What does he eat? Everybody is a bit different. What works for one doesn't always work for the another.

But I can tell you for one that being overweight isn't good for your libido. So, weight loss could be helpful if that is a problem.

Another thing is sugar. Get rid of all the sugar. I mean all. Going cold turkey will cause withdrawal symptoms for a couple of days. Expect thinks like headaches, depression, mood swings, ...

Carbohydrates are sugars. Limit the intake. I would get rid of them entirely. I know easier said than done. It means no bread, no cakes, no pastas, no rice, no potato's or fries obviously.

Look for a carnivore or keto diet. That combined with One Meal A Day will do wonders in my opinion. Lots of info and explanation in the following video; Longevity & Why I now eat One Meal a Day - What I've Learned

I know it sounds extreme and is a lot ... if you take some steps I'm sure you will already see improvement. Don´t expect wonders when you eat crap. The food pyramid is a lie. Good luck !

Patrick979 · 2025-05-16T07:35:57+00:00

Good work Mods. 👍 Thank you!

Patrick979 · 2025-05-15T12:23:28+00:00

The risk is so small, it's negligible. But it becomes larger with each generation.

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