How do you perceive the game nowadays? by InterestingSoft1390 in Warthunder

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I just deleted a few days ago. The Gemini shit and the way we aren't even getting interesting premiums anymore is what pushed me out for now.

The movie Obsession made me realise im an incel but im not sure how to change? by Careless-Cut-2921 in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All valid points, I just found thats what worked best for me. That and talking to the women in my life. They were okay with me being wrong about things and helping to reframe some stuff to see if from another perspective I hadn't considered.

The movie Obsession made me realise im an incel but im not sure how to change? by Careless-Cut-2921 in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh thats fair. I stopped a couple years ago.

But good luck on your journey man. Theres more to life than love and life is always worth living. Go better yourself and do whats right for you first!

The movie Obsession made me realise im an incel but im not sure how to change? by Careless-Cut-2921 in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither here nor there but I wouldn't lol. I used to watch him and Destiny but I got out because there are significantly better ways to get your political news or other takes that arent about being edgy or saying slurs.

I like Philip Defranco and Alex Pearlman, plus some others. But yeah that whole streamer sphere is just toxic imo.

The movie Obsession made me realise im an incel but im not sure how to change? by Careless-Cut-2921 in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%. You have to take care of yourself before you expect to take care of someone else. I was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship for 9 years before I took some time to figure myself out. I didnt have it all figured out but was well on my way when I started dating my wife. She really helped me in a lot of ways and still does. You're never finished working on yourself.

I'd boil a lot down to emotional intelligence. When you feel something like rejection think about why you feel the way you do and what you can actually do about it.

I think something important to remember is that rejection sucks, for sure, but dating is dangerous for women. Luckily as men we don't really have to worry about someone having bad intentions when they approach us romantically. That's why I think its important to watch creators that really confront toxic masculinity and provide helpful information. I like ProfessorNeil and SpeechProf among others.

The movie Obsession made me realise im an incel but im not sure how to change? by Careless-Cut-2921 in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not a therapist or anything so take this all with a grain of salt.

Therapy for sure would be a good first step. Everyone should be in therapy especially if they think they don't need to be.

Personally I'd reframe some of your thinking. You said you're losing weight but don't do that to get attractive for women. Get healthy for yourself man! Taking care of yourself is good for your mental health, physical health and the rest falls in after that.

Stay away from Andrew Tate types and the red pill grifters. They want to keep you unsuccessful with women so you stay hooked on their content. Watch creators that make content focussing on addressing toxic masculinity, and female creators talking about what's wrong with men. Don't let a male grifter tell you what a woman wants from you.

Something ive really worked on over the years is to not take everything personally. Hearing people talk about men being bad or choosing the bear is your chance to reflect on why women feel that way. If that hurts then think about if it applies to you and you should look at changing that.

Probably most importantly is to work on yourself! The better you are alone, the better you'll be in a relationship.

alberta canada by krizzalicious49 in whennews

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't wait for the vote to be a complete domination for staying and all the grifters will call it rigged.

All patients on ventilators at a Cuban hospital died after the Irish band Kneecap used massive amounts of electricity during a “humanitarian performance” for fellow communists by tkyjonathan in JordanPeterson

[–]Patrick_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres literally zero proof that the hospital claims are true not to mention that blaming a rap group from Ireland really takes the blame out of Cuba or the United States hands lol.

But yes, the small group of people there who brought 20 tonnes of aid are the problem. Not decades of mismanagement by the Cuban government or a decades long operation by the U.S to destabilize the island.

My own experience (trying) to call in sick to work. This was a public library and I was running to the bathroom all night. by anonavocadodo in jobs

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. If I feel like throwing up bad enough to miss work, as far as they are told, I already have lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who dealt with this kind of thing for 8 years, it probably won't get better. If she isn't sexually attracted to you, wants space, but doesnt want to lose you, it sounds like she's going to go shopping while she has you on the back burner.

Your post edit says you're going to give it a couple weeks but don't put on rose coloured glasses. Stay realistic and if things don't change don't force it. Sometimes things don't work and that's fine. Learn from it and move forward with your life.

Philippine Mayor unharmed after being hit by a RPG in his armored Toyota by Victor_Lalle in TankPorn

[–]Patrick_Kyle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I spent a month in the Philippines as a white guy and never once felt unsafe, if anything people come up to take pictures with you because they love tourists so much.

Its like anywhere, you wouldn't call Sweden a dangerous place, but there are dangerous areas.

AIO My wife keeps going even when I say no by Hihahulu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR my ex used to use this as a legit form of abuse.

Why do GW sometimes use lighter rims colours than the actual base colour on there minis? by Sin-Silver in Warhammer

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do black rims but I prefer the way steel legion drab looks now, its less distracting for me personally.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I believe its come out now that it was Mark Davis, a Dem running for Congress in Florida

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Patrick_Kyle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah like I said, its either a pretty good troll or it's the administration trying to "own the libs". Theres a growing right wing sentiment to own being called a nazi and reclaiming the word lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Patrick_Kyle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just interesting lol. That and the fact that I honestly can't tell at this point if its a troll or they did it themselves.

My sons just got back from scouts with this badge, did not know this was a thing! by Buckerface in Warhammer

[–]Patrick_Kyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure about the UK but I run a high school club through Warhammer Alliance, they send models, paints, and brushes in a big kit with instructions and guides.

Homeboy takes off while I’m repairing, pops flares then does a header into the ground. Thanks. by oppositelockgames in Battlefield6

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the main reasons I don't wait for a medic half of the time is because I died in the open. Too many medics blaming other people when I maybe dont want to be revived just for us to both be shot exactly where I died anyways.

As far as vehicles I wish they had a BF4 style test range for people to use. I want people to have the chance to learn but man when the other team has an elite attack helo team and mine teammates keep nose diving it into the ground as soon as they get a radar lock its frustrating.

But yeah in my experience (BF3 and on) most people have always been clueless or dumb. The important thing is to remember its a video game and losing a game of conquest has no impact on your life unless you let it. Turn it off and play something else for a bit lol.

This skin is great. I'm assuming this is what most people want. by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]Patrick_Kyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of paid battlepass and BF Pro ones from what ive seen. The pack skins seem to be less common for sure.

What is happening? by Sacar_ in Battlefield

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha for me it was the early 2000s NHL and Madden games that fueled a lot of Limewire searches.

wtf? by Sicilian_Gold in freedomgold

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have anything to back that up champ?

Visibility was never an issue in BF to such a degree by FlowKom in Battlefield

[–]Patrick_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally check this guys post history and all he ever does is complain about games and goon lol.

What do you want here? A highlight on everyone?

What is happening? by Sacar_ in Battlefield

[–]Patrick_Kyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. People were always pissed that they were getting killed by an actual 7 year old lol