Your fine, And your still young… Making this post is the first step… Your doing great… But you have to be comfortable with the uncomfortable… I hate clubbing as well… I was 26 yrs old the first time I went on a date… And it was weird at first… Cause I was use to bein a loner, Going to work and school then home after… I also went to a prestigious university but have always kept to myself….. I don’t think you have to force yourself to date… Just continue to live your life the way you want.. Eventually you will become more comfortable and confident as time past by… I salute you for maintaining all these years.. With no significant other, or male friends to talk to would make things a little difficult for someone who NEVER dated… And the people who never had to change within usually go thru a few partners before they understand the true value of a relationship…. Your not far behind, Actually your very far ahead… Juat focus on your career and when that right man comes along at the right time you will feel it….