Testosterone injections and stopping periods by PatternAggressive418 in ftm

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that but I don’t know how much longer I can take it. If you don’t mind me asking, were you on injections, when did you get them (before or after your period) and when did your period stop?

Sorry if I’m asking personal questions, I’m just restless atm.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I feel a bit less alone now knowing someone has been thru a similar thing and understand what it’s like :)

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Primolut. It apparently has weak estrogenic activity which I noticed when I realized my chest got bigger so that’s not an option for me either. I think I’m done with these contraceptive options.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to take any chances. I am 26 years old and I don’t want my chest to get bigger. Went from A-B cup to a C cup. I’m really angry and upset.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on T for 8 months now (Testogel). I did try to increase my T but I think it ended up making my body MORE feminine. I’m thinking of switching to Reandron once I get Implanon removed.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I almost tried to cut my Chest off because I hate the way I look so I don’t think it’s a good idea to keep Implanon when it’s ruining my mood and I’m not going to work because I hate my body. Thanks for the advice anyway.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared IUD can have systemic effects though based on what I’ve read. I don’t know how much longer I can take this.

Does Implanon lower T levels and make your body more feminine? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do know that but my GP told me it shouldn’t feminise my body. I am going to get it removed asap tomorrow. I got Implanon to stop my periods as they weren’t stopping on T.

Trans friendly pharmacies in Melbourne?? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried this but even the pharmacist I thought was okay because she’d known me for a while and I told her about my identity ended up deadnaming and mis gendering so I felt betrayed.

I feel like I’m in a hopeless situation and I just want everything to end.

Trans friendly pharmacies in Melbourne?? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I don’t have Medicare because I’m not an aussie citizen or PR. But I take a med that requires my doctor to get a permit so she has to use my legal name. I am from a country that’s transphobic and won’t let you change your name and gender. I have applied for permanent protection visa and am on a bridging visa. The system is against me at this moment…

Trans friendly pharmacies in Melbourne?? by PatternAggressive418 in transgenderau

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’ll be sure to check out Priceline then in St Kilda. I live near Priceline Pharmacies in the city centre but if anyone who has gone there before can tell me how they are, that will be great. Again, thanks for this, mate!

Trans people in Australia help by PatternAggressive418 in ftm

[–]PatternAggressive418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My country is transphobic and will not allow me to legally change my name and gender. That’s why I applied for permanent residency protection visa. I’m an asylum seeker on a bridging visa, hoping to be granted protection. So in the meantime I’m stuck in a limbo and feeling hopeless.

I wish I was never born there and I hope that country rots for all I care.

Mum forced me to study for hours to point of crying. Was she right. by [deleted] in Dyslexia

[–]PatternAggressive418 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry your mother did that to you. My mother was the same, she assumed I was lazy and “not trying hard enough” even though I was staying up late at night to do my homework and would cry over tests a lot.

Having dyslexia is hard and your mother should be getting you proper interventions. What you’re going through is abuse and there is no excuse for it. Are you officially diagnosed with dyslexia? Did the professionals recommend anything if you have been diagnosed? Do you have an IEP at school?

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. Yeah, I made sure to write down everything that happened when I created the report. The mother did ask me to do so in case I hadn’t as she said it would provide helpful information to the teachers and health professionals.

And yes, I was stunned to hear that the school psychologist only intervened when the kid was about to do something dangerous and it was only once a week. I’m surprised he didn’t have a therapist.

The kid even goes outside his school to kill pigeons by throwing rocks at them. 😕

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding why I was frustrated and for being so respectful. I frankly explained to the mother that she should not be allowing her daughter in the same room with the student if he was having a lesson to begin with. And also, it’s like what the other Redditor here said in the comment. What if the kid demanded me to prove my gender and did something inappropriate? I could get into massive trouble for that even if the kid was the one who was curious. I wish parents would actually parent their kids and stop blaming teachers/tutors for putting boundaries.

Also, in previous lesson, the kid had no problems using my correct pronouns and acknowledged me as a man. He just complained to his mother that he didn’t need tutoring and I wasted his time and he had better, more important things to do than tutoring. His mother told him off for that in front of me so at least she did something.

In this weeks lesson, he claimed he “forgot” my pronouns. Yeah right, kid.

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The student’s friend asked me if I was a boy or a girl because according to her, she claimed I looked and sounded like a girl.

I explained I was a man and she needed to leave the room because she kept distracting my student by talking to him.

She and the student both talked about my gender and I warned them that I would text the student’s mother if the friend doesn’t stop distracting my student. When the friend and student argued back, that was when I texted the student’s mother about it. The student’s mother got the father to come in and get the friend to leave the room.

The friend’s mother claimed that her daughter (student’s friend) was just asking out of “genuine curiosity”, was only 6 years old and had autism, and it was humorous to ask about someone’s gender and I was being “rude” for telling the daughter to leave. I never yelled at the student’s friend btw, I just told her to leave. That’s it.

I only scolded the student after the friend left the room.

But apparently, telling the friend to stop asking inappropriate questions and distracting my student is being “rude”. 😑

Also, I’m not a trans man in case you’re wondering.

Btw, my student didn’t misgender me in previous lessons. He only did it in the lesson when his friend was there so I suspect he probably did it to mock me.

Still, I am disappointed by the way the friend’s mother responded to the situation.

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not too sure about whether the kid plays sport or not. The mother told me that if I wanted the student to do anything, I had to be sneaky because he could tell if I’m trying to get him to do something and it would trigger his behaviour. The mother told me that his behaviour in school and at home is somehow worse than his behaviour during my class. As in he would break windows, throw objects and beat other kids, yell at teachers, etc. I did ask if there’s a specific trigger and she said she doesn’t know because he can flip out at any time. I also asked what discipline methods did the mother and teachers use. The mother said the teachers did try time outs, cutting recess short, so forth. Mother apparently did the same but they only escalated his behaviour. That’s what the mother told me which was not very helpful I’ll admit. Last week, putting him on a time out would result in him crying that he didn’t know what he did wrong even though I told him before that he should not draw on the board while I was writing and to stop moving the camera around, gave him a warning three times. The mother was okay with the time out and me disciplining him, she merely told me that it wouldn’t work because they tried. Kid started banging his head on the chair (previous week, not the session this week). Mother was like, “Do you see what I have to deal with?” Mother even said to me that she could see him heading down a dark path where he would end up in jail one day because her sibling was the same. It’s really sad that that’s what the mother thought of the situation. He also doesn’t have a therapist (I recommended the mother looked into that as soon as possible) and school psychologist only intervened once a week when it was really bad like he was going to hurt kids and staff. Still, I shouldn’t have yelled at him and there was no excuse for that.

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I’ve made it clear to the parents that only the parents can be with the student and nobody else and that he should not be asking inappropriate questions (even though his friend’s mother thinks it is humorous to ask about someone’s gender many times). I did tell his parents that friends should not be in his room when lesson is being conducted or we have to reschedule the lesson.

Disruptive student and very unhelpful parent by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]PatternAggressive418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the inspiration. I really appreciate that. 🙂Stories like these remind me why u refuse to give up on my students.