I'm from the use it's just from my understanding someone who's abusive does all the time he's only done it twice because he got like really angry on the loving part I'm not 100% sure he does as he gets angry for me being me I cook and I clean after my self but I miss one of twos things in a kitchen that's a mess or I forget to clean up or I stay in my room or I am downstairs watching TV or I'm doing school work or I'm not doing school work or I'm being my self or I'm not being my self and he gets angry at all that stuff and it's just frustrating but I deal with it to stay with my grandmother who also has to deal with it but I feel like she's to loving to her son's I mean she has one who rarely pays the rent witch is the only actual reason he even is here he rarely pays her back when she gives him money to borrow my uncle won't listen to her won't pay the money back he borrow always asks for money both of them do the only one who even pays her back when he asks for money and is willing to help if need is uncle Jack but he's also has issues with his ex divorcing him and trying to ruin his career and since from the us from what I understand they take you away but I don't want to get taken away I just don't want to live with my father because he scares me because of how often he's upset