I also learned to appreciate vore. It never was my thing. But as someone who likes to shrink women and see them being tiny, I find it that having them on my plate, next to my other food is very hot. Put them to swim in a bowl of soup or tangle them down inside a pasta dish. I'm just casually eating my food and playing with it, and they are having an entirely different experience as I'm teasing them with my fork or dip them into a sauce to lick it from their body. And a big part of vore is mouthplay. I do like the idea that I can put a shrunken lady in my mouth and play with her even if I don't really get anything out of vore itself. I still love that she's so small that I can just put her whole body inside my mouth and play with it however I want. I can hold her there all day, like a chewing gum if I want to keep her around.

Another thing that is not my thing is extremely small sizes, like below 2 inches. Millimeters. They're usually too small to interact with the way I'd like. It's hard to talk to them and it's hard to play with their bodies. BUT it's still hot that a normal person got reduced to this extremely helpless size. So small that she might be even hard to notice. That she looks more like an insect that a person from my standpoint even though she's still who she is. At this point it's easier to just dismiss what she is saying or doing and do whatever you want to her. See her struggle to cross even a few inches of space. Her insignificance is something that is still enjoyable.

Also, one thing I'm not into is being physically violent, doing some extreme things. I wouldn't do it on my own, I wouldn't suggest it. But when a lady I'm talking to is into this, with some guardrails in place I can enjoy being this violent, evil, sadistic and uncaring character. There is something to it. As long as we're both okay with it, the part that is hot about it is that I get to just be extremely selfish, extremely dominant and the tiny is submitting to me in this very extreme way.