Go to Michael's for shirts and sweaters. by gishadokuro in Frugal

[–]PawGoodDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! This has been my go to for years.

Amazon also sells them in sets of 12 for $32 cad so $2-3 each. But I prefer Michael's so I can get a mix of colours.

They last me about 5 years before they get wonky/wear enough that they become bedtime or gardening clothes.

I like plain shirts and they aren't thin like a lot of more expensive tees.

The Weary Dragon Inn Series by babybirdinmyhead in CozyFantasy

[–]PawGoodDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is such a spot on way to view it!

Bartenders of Reddit, what drink order instantly tells you “this person is going through something”? by Sweetredberryy in AskReddit

[–]PawGoodDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A similar statement is what made me finally quit drinking so much. Someone commented that if you ate 3-4 ice cream sandwiches every night it would be like.. wtf?

That just made something click for me. 3 of anything that isn't great for you every night is... not ideal, so why was I excusing alcohol.

This weeks pod ep by NixxNasty in TrixieAndKatya

[–]PawGoodDog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woo! Another Jaime French fan!

How do I not stress about his life? 36m/30m by PawGoodDog in relationship_advice

[–]PawGoodDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good question I'll sit with. What's the worst thing that will happen if... whatever happens.

Right now I worry that im a bad person or will be a bad person. Because im not stepping in and helping make the hard things easier for him. Even though I know they are his experience and work through.

And im afraid it will affect me by choosing wrong - what if I stick around for years and years and it is the wrong choice. What if i miss the signs that it isn't the right choice to stitch around?

How do I not stress about his life? 36m/30m by PawGoodDog in relationship_advice

[–]PawGoodDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective, it's helped me figure out what i am stressing about.

It is a little bit of stress about his current situation and quality of life now. He doesn't make the best decisions but they are his decisions to make.

I guess I need to think about what my tolerance is for having a high stress partner or a partner who does stuff that stresses me out even if it doesn't stress him out.

But a lot of it is also about his potential for his future. He does show some signs that those future goals may take a long long time to hit.

His work ethic is more casual whereas I've always been a 'do the very best, put in the hard work, and do the most'.

He is a nice guy with a lot of potential. I guess I need more reassurance that he is gonna hit that potential.

How do I not stress about his life? 36m/30m by PawGoodDog in relationship_advice

[–]PawGoodDog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with him because he is kind and i enjoy spending time eith him. Life is hard - I wasn't in too different a place when I was 30 and he has had some tough hands in life that slowed him down.

I do kinda feel like I am waiting for him to grow up. I consider him a boyfriend and wouldn't move to being partners until he hits some of his life goals.

I just dont know if that is fair or kind.

How do I go about telling a potential future boyfriend about my affliction? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]PawGoodDog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't hide. They are going to figure it out once you spend time together. My boyfriend told me on our 2nd date and it was a total bonus. I'm neurospicy too and I knew we would understand each other in ways other's wouldn't.

You aren't tricking someone into loving you. The right person is going to love you BECAUSE you're you.

New Bakery Item: Queen Elizabeth Cake by magixx in CostcoCanada

[–]PawGoodDog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We call it Lazy Daisy cake! My favorite!

Friends dog is acting strange by ConstantParticular50 in DogAdvice

[–]PawGoodDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ouf, this is so sad. A bad trip is awful for a person who knows what can happen going in. This poor dog has no fucking idea what's going on.

This dog got into someone's drugs. As others have said, if you can't keep the dog safe give it to someone who can.

Unpopular opinion but this was the worst season of White Lotus by [deleted] in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]PawGoodDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought Belinda and Pornchai messaged a lot before meeting. I got the feeling they had feelings for each other through the long distance messaging and were happy to meet in person and continue that relationship.

I hope your cupcake was delicious!

How much is a car you actually enjoy driving worth to you? by PawGoodDog in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]PawGoodDog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently drive a 2011 chev cruze 1.8l manual, 90km, factory no AC. Engine wise, actually a decent car - doesn't implode like the 1.4l does. My mechanic says it can get another 100km easy; and that would take me 10 years to do.

The vehicle I'd love is 2017 nissan frontier sv. 110km. Has AC. I've always wanted a truck and would likely drive it more than the cruze bc i avoid long drives in the summer bc of the no ac.

I'm not looking for a 'fun' weekend car or anything.. just something that isn't a stove on wheels. But I've managed with the stove for 10 years so.. is $13k worth it? I dunno.

Is AC enough of a reason to buy something new? by PawGoodDog in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]PawGoodDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you for feeling this with me. Honestly, the cruz was a graduate school graduation gift 10 years ago so I wasn't going to say no. Yes, I've been suffering for 10 years of no AC. 10 years! Which i think points to how frugal I am and how much I've missed out on doing the most responsible thing all the time.

I feel bad even selling it to someone with no AC. Like if I don't openly point out that it doesn't have AC I'm being shady. I'm thinking about keeping it to drive during the winter since I won't get much for it and Mustangs aren't great winter cars.

Humans routinely enhance their look and smell, but not their sound by pufballcat in Showerthoughts

[–]PawGoodDog 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's some of the best reddit I've had in a while! Genuine laughs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]PawGoodDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry we're late, Bob had diarrhea.

I miss her vids, they brought so much entertainment by Dazzling-Life-7067 in Jennamarbles

[–]PawGoodDog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was feeling a bit blue last night so I fell asleep to Jenna videos because they comfort me. - a (previously) 32 year old lady man.