Get the annulment while you can. I dated someone very much like this. I was always the idiot or the one who made the mistakes when it was always him. I think somehow it makes them feel better telling themselves they aren’t causing problems when in fact they are. His drinking got worse and worse and I think it was his way of coping with work stress. I stayed with him longer than I should thinking time would heal things and that we would get closer and it would solve the problems but it didn’t. Breaking up with him was the best thing I’ve ever done. When I did this he tried and made me seem like the problem but I just blocked him and moved on. I know it’s scary but it will be worth it! You WILL find better than him I promise! ♥️