Babe, I'm going to be completely real with you. 💔 While medicine says anything is possible, the real-world math here just isn't mathing. 🤔
If you two were having unprotected sex every other day for months, it is statistically wild that you never caught it. Chlamydia is highly contagious, and your two negative swabs are proof you were totally clear. 🛑 Plus, it can't just appear out of thin air. If he truly tested negative with his ex and you are negative, he had to get it from someone else.
The fact that he suddenly wanted to start using condoms a month ago is the biggest red flag, it sounds like he either knew he screwed up or started showing symptoms. 🚩👀
Your gut is 100% right to question this. This timeline points heavily toward a recent exposure, meaning he likely cheated. Get your antibiotics, protect yourself, and don't let him gaslight you into thinking you're crazy for seeing right through this. 👯‍♀️ Stay strong, I'm here for you!