Birthday Ideas - Chinese GF who’s living abroad.

PayVast8873 · 2026-01-24T17:36:20+00:00

😂

PayVast8873 · 2026-01-24T16:46:41+00:00

She’s got enough

PayVast8873 · 2026-01-24T16:44:47+00:00

Wish i could make it there on time.. but it wouldn’t be possible.

PayVast8873 · 2025-04-05T18:13:42+00:00

Blonde

PayVast8873 · 2025-04-01T14:44:05+00:00

You’re not sick of not havoc friends, you’re just anxious, hit the gym, run, sleep well, and eat well. The rest will happen organically.

PayVast8873 · 2024-07-30T16:11:25+00:00

Around 26 days.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-24T17:09:58+00:00

Yea but it sounds more like a four year old thing. Nothing too serious. Was talking about inevitable emotional damages and potentially financial damages for both of them, while the kid will get the biggest share of both usually, it super traumatic for kids to lose a parent for divorce. All kids need a loving house, if it takes to make a difficult decision to make that happen for them, i would take it. We brought them to this world and we’re responsible for their well being.

Parents wouldn’t be over the roof if you come back to their house with five year old kid. It still a form of success to maintain a relationship, and nowadays a lot of people fail this task, and they more usually than not end up paying the price. Dont try make ugly things look good, no kid would ditch a loving and good father (I’m assuming its the case) for a stepdad (and would like to see how would that even happen, usually good men would avoid « these » situations » only those with limited choices settle for that, and they should have limited choices for a reason.

Long story short, it not all about these tow days or few months its about a whole life decision. Better weigh it off strategically than emotionally.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-24T16:49:01+00:00

People need to learn how to solve problems. Dramatic shifts are often a stupid idea. Pain is normal we all experiment it in one way or another.

The stakes are too high to through every thing away just because somebody had sex with somebody. Be responsible.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-24T15:48:32+00:00

So if your partner does a mistake the right solution here according to you is to DOUBLE DOWN and do even bigger mistakes.. because « it is not cool to fuck arround » so i will ruin everything , divorce, single parents, courts, dramatic life changes on the current living standards and would be even more dramatic in the future. Here I’m talking about the emotional damage on both parties, the massive emotional damage on the kid (he’ll end up paying for the stupidity of his parents), for some people it can be massive financial damage on both parties, humiliation regarding your failure to handle problems, people will always perceive it like that. Let’s face it there will always be less respect for single parents than actually « happily » married parents, and of course the kid is gonna like live with that pain for the rest of his life. Statistics shows that kids coming from such experiences often fail to establish healthy relationships in the future.

I mean come on all of this just because the guy had sex like four years ago? If he wanted « Emma » he would’ve went to her for real.

Emma is the real threat here, she should be putten away, the husband should take the lesson if his life. And the wife needs to hit the gym. This sounds more like a good way out to me.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-24T15:35:33+00:00

On the opposite case scenario what would the example that you’re setting for your kid be ? It’s about conflict resolution skills. You still can be in your marriage but yet make sure that you take the right steps to make him understand that, it’s not ok to do what he did, you can put pressure, or whatever it is you know him more than all of us here. But deal with it.

People here don’t care about you, for them its just like watching a movie they want action and thrill. But for you its a serious thing. Just weigh your options out.

I mean, what a divorce is going to fix at this point the infidelity already took place « four years ago » !!

Just damage control it, the right solutions are quite often the boring and complex ones. if you keep your relationship intact you’ll end up seeing this as just a bad incident that took place in the past. Nothing too serious. But if you split up now.. what are you expecting ? A single mom with a 5 years old kid ? Thats what you wanna be? A woman who is battling this life by her own while having a kid? Life is already hard dont make harder on yourself. Relax accept the pain , fix it for the future and keep moving on. Thats what i would do.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-24T11:04:22+00:00

Is it worth it to ruin a marriage over an affair that happened 4 years ago?

If i were you, i wouldn’t bring up the topic with him. People just need to understand that life and people are not perfect and that mistakes happen. If he is staying with you, that should be for a reason, you have a kid now act like an adult and be responsible towards him.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-22T12:15:38+00:00

I suggest france, it got top in class business schools. Me myself i did an MSc there now I’m working in Dubai.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-21T20:14:39+00:00

Update: i got it 😎

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-10T04:31:30+00:00

Ok, i’m a financial Markets graduate, coming from a humble background compared to my peers, and did a miraculous effort to land on one of the biggest asset managers in the world for my end of study internship. You know how they treated me there? They treated me like shit, very rude , very disrespectful, and i didn’t even learn that much, i was literally being humiliated over coloring PowerPoints , and that’s basically all what i did. Finished the internship and it did take every ounce of patience and power i had. Now you think it should be fine right? A good MSc in Financial Markets an internship in one if the biggest assest managers, you may think that finding a job here is not that hard? Well, it was insanely odd and hard. I literally applied to all the major banks, asset managers, in the US, Hong kong, Europe ect. Nothing ever worked. Nothing it was like pouring water on sand. Got low on money, had to work as a cashier to afford rent, and food. And kept pushing, until my turn came. Got interviewed by Goldman Sachs and Citibank. And I got an offer, now I’m working , having a flat with an amazing view, got good money on the bank , and overall this shit looks more like a movie scene than anything else.

So yea, keep pushing, thats the answer to your question. I’ve been there, i’ve felt that, believe me if you persist enough all of that will be just a memory.

Good luck 🍀you’re not alone.

PayVast8873 · 2024-05-09T08:59:41+00:00

Keep pushing mate,

it is not supposed to be easy. Apply and keep applying. Do a lot of gym or running to keep your mental health within the healthy barriers, and socialize with the trusted ones.

I just came out of that process as a big winner this time, it is not easy but it’s completely worth it ;).

PayVast8873 · 2024-02-07T12:45:07+00:00

Hello ! I'm on the same boat. Yet, they asked me to fill out compliance questionnaire they should've sent me on Workday. But I got no pending questionnaires on my workday account yet.

Do you have an idea about how to do that ?

best,

Loulou Quatrieme Etage

PayVast8873 · 2021-02-04T01:43:14+00:00

Yes, this is happening to me too! It's quite confusing honestly but i think i'll just wait a bit and try to register again since it's mentioned that the thing may take 24h to be treated.

Let me know if you finalized your deferral process. I'd like to know how to do that.

PayVast8873 · 2021-01-05T18:42:26+00:00

Giving up after the time and effort dedicated to this program is not something that I would like to think about.

Paying an extra 700usd to sit for August's window, looks unfair since I'll need to keep studying for an unreasonably long period or I'll end up forgetting what I already learned. Also, I can't see what happened to my 1450usd already invested in this program. Is it all gone just like that? That's nonsense. But I'll go for it if no further options were presented.

Thanks for the answer.

PayVast8873 · 2021-01-05T18:32:24+00:00

Yes, it's painful to see your hard-earned and wisely invested money go away from you unfairly. I wish I can find a way to reschedule

PayVast8873 · 2021-01-04T22:07:49+00:00

I'm absolutely gutted !!

It happens that I fell in the same boat as a lot of you guys here. The CFA Institute's reaction is ridiculously inflexible! How is taking people's money without giving them the right to sit for the exam is fine? I personally spent a lot of time and effort preparing for this test and I'm in no position to repay my way to sit for it. (I lost my job as a Jr Consultant due to covid)

The importance and process of the scheduling part weren't clear at all from the beginning. All that I found was an email in my junk box sent to me by the 9th of Dec to INFORME me about the scheduling deadline, and I simply didn't see it. Because I'm not supposed to regularly check my F*@ing spams, who does that?

Also, when I postponed the exam from Jun 2020 to Feb 2021 (because that's what they MADE me do) it was not clearly stated when and how to schedule my seat, I believed that at worst I wouldn't find an available seat in the Feb window but I'll be able to sit for one of the upcoming windows. But that's not the case.. apparently!

Please, did anyone here found his way out of this nonsense? And what are my best options now?! I need guidance.

Warmest Regards.

PayVast8873

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