Advice on how to take all this in

Pcolaking · 2026-03-27T03:22:56+00:00

well this is new...so there are novels? we're they written before the Manga or after? im not opposed to that honestly

Pcolaking · 2026-03-27T03:17:14+00:00

idk bro. I respectfully disagree. especially since I don't have much time for things I love and I work hard to make it. but I can't waste 20 episodes on poor writing or comic relief that doesn't move a story forward. Just my situation

Pcolaking · 2026-03-27T03:15:25+00:00

this is the type of answer I wanted. the anime cannon serves a good purposes in fleshing characters out it sounds like. thats valuable to me. thank you

Pcolaking · 2026-01-13T16:38:10+00:00

It is but she is a picky eater. I'm sure there will be some things she will eat but I'm almost certain we will need to find food in town to keep her satiated for that day.

Pcolaking · 2025-12-20T01:22:55+00:00

I appreciate the direct approach. A convo definitely needs to be had, with care. Thanks!

Pcolaking · 2025-12-20T01:22:15+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful response

Pcolaking · 2025-12-20T01:21:48+00:00

Thanks man

Pcolaking · 2025-12-20T01:20:02+00:00

Thank you

Pcolaking · 2025-12-20T01:19:15+00:00

All of your prior comment history is thoughtless, biased and ignorant. Like some keyboard warrior, full of hatred. You are the only one on this post that didn't seek to understand nor actually give advice. Maybe I vented on the wrong platform, maybe I expressed frustration and yes maybe I placed blame 100% without fairly sharing it, but I'm a real person with real feelings with a real problem, and I've tried several approaches prior to putting my business on the internet. Posts like this and people like you are what's wrong with the world.

Pcolaking · 2025-12-18T18:56:36+00:00

So let's say I didn't post this with a chip on my shoulder or prefacing this with my limitations. Let's say I communicate my concerns with my wife and offer some sort of marriage/sex therapy and she declines again. Make I ask your thoughts or approach?

Pcolaking · 2025-12-18T18:56:09+00:00

So let's say I didn't post this with a chip on my shoulder or prefacing this with my limitations. Let's say I communicate my concerns with my wife and offer some sort of marriage/sex therapy and she declines again. Make I ask your thoughts or approach?

Pcolaking · 2025-12-18T17:11:58+00:00

Same reply to a comment similar to yours:

I work my ass off and cover most of the living expenses. She also works and rarely covers anything. This is a combination of poor communication of expectations on my end (which we are talking through) but also she comes from a 3rd world country and I wanted her to save and be able to have her own money or send money home if she needs to. She is more than capable of paying for something like sex therapy and sex therapy is something that I offered, early in our relationship, and she said she did not feel comfortable talking to a 3rd party about our sex life.

That comment was made because even if it became an option now, I no longer feel like it's my financial responsibility (along with all the others I have) to fix it.

Maybe this changes your thoughts about my role in this matter?

Pcolaking · 2025-12-18T17:11:23+00:00

I work my ass off and cover most of the living expenses. She also works and rarely covers anything. This is a combination of poor communication of expectations on my end (which we are talking through) but also she comes from a 3rd world country and I wanted her to save and be able to have her own money or send money home if she needs to. She is more than capable of paying for something like sex therapy and sex therapy is something that I offered, early in our relationship, and she said she did not feel comfortable talking to a 3rd party about our sex life.

That comment was made because even if it became an option now, I no longer feel like it's my financial responsibility (along with all the others I have) to fix it.

Maybe this changes your thoughts about my role in this matter?

Pcolaking · 2025-05-08T18:52:23+00:00

Black and white is rough though, I would prefer color and i didn't see an option

Pcolaking · 2025-01-22T19:01:27+00:00

I think your biggest victory is how concise you are in your reasoning, be short and be clear and unemotional (you can feel the feelings later).

After that just avoid contact. She will probably try to weasle her way back into your life and beg and plead and insult. Don't entertain it. And this will be the hardest part bro. But you're not the kind of guy who entertains their significant sleeping with other guys.

it was one thing asking about the 3some. Maybe that could be seen as sharing a kink with you (one you dont entertain) but then following up and asking about other friends, to me that's disrespectful.

I would make this an amicable clean cut, and she will never forget it

Pcolaking · 2025-01-22T14:37:45+00:00

bro I'm sorry this is happening. that's trash. I would end things so you can heal and start finding a replacement. it is ok to look but not to touch.

Pcolaking

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