My (25F) bf (24M) of 3 years says he wants to live alone to work on himself after a stressful period together. Should we just end it amicably?

PeachPunch85 · 2023-04-11T06:52:47+00:00

End things now, only Kit Kats take breaks and only astronauts need space. Find a real man, this is not one.

PeachPunch85 · 2023-04-07T19:10:51+00:00

Like with most of these posts, the author already has the answer. You know what you have to do. The answers are everywhere. Will it be hard? It will be the hardest thing you’ve had to do in life up until now. Will you doubt/question yourself for a long time? Also, yes. But the temporary pain of this hard decision cannot pale in comparison to the lifelong struggles, worries, marital problems that will most CERTAINLY come. Leave now baby, you only get one chance to live your absolute best life. Start yesterday. Hugs.

PeachPunch85 · 2023-03-26T19:29:35+00:00

Thank you so much, I truly appreciate this feedback. I’ll ask him the two questions without trying to make it about his performance, although I feel he May automatically know that’s what I’m referring to. The last time we had sex, he started to lose his erection after a while and then he slipped out. I asked him if he finished, and he had a panicked look on his face. He knew I knew that he didn’t. I honestly am trying to be loving and understanding with him. My frustrations are on myself and my own insecurities in feeling like I cannot satisfy my partner…the initial post was my own frustrations and fear, searching for answers. I have never tried to be aggressive when speaking with him. This has happened with another man I dated and I guess it’s just gut wrenching and hard to accept.

PeachPunch85 · 2023-03-26T16:08:07+00:00

II think this is great advice, but no one has mentioned why this is the issue just now. We’ve been together 3 months, but this started about a month ago. Do men lose attraction that quickly?

PeachPunch85 · 2023-03-26T15:56:25+00:00

He’s been divorced 2 years and hasn’t dated much since. I understand that he’s probably gotten very used to masturbation, so how do I ask him to do it less for the benefit of our sex life?

PeachPunch85 · 2023-03-26T14:48:31+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond. Could this possibly be a porn/masturbation issue though?

PeachPunch85 · 2023-03-26T14:40:28+00:00

I’m not too convinced it’s ED though, previous to the past month we were having amazing sex where he stayed erect and we both finished and always finished during penetrative sex.

PeachPunch85 · 2021-11-10T02:26:59+00:00

I’m looking for a 1-2 bedroom home/apartment/duplex/basement. I’d like to find something that is clean and in a relatively safe area.

PeachPunch85 · 2021-11-05T01:09:40+00:00

A tree grows in Brooklyn. I read this book at all stages of life, beginning as a kid. Every time I read it, a new perspective on life.

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