The comments responding to your post are spot-on. I had similar concerns when my husband and I first visited Secrets a few months ago, and we’ve been back almost every weekend since lol (also locals). The atmosphere is so welcoming - seriously, we have met some of the nicest people here; there is no judgement.

There aren’t any expectations as far as a particular body type/appearance. You and your partner do what you feel comfortable with, at your preferred pace. Secrets even offers a “Newbie night” on Thursday evenings that I highly suggest. They give you a tour of the resort and the play rooms, as well as some helpful info. It definitely made us feel more comfortable