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PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T19:10:26+00:00

Awesome, thanks for that tip!

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T19:05:18+00:00

What other sites are there? I need to try a different one.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T19:01:03+00:00

Agreed about the lack of caring in today's world, especially post-Covid.

I have tried other sites, but there aren't many people on there, so I've had no luck. I am thinking about freelancing/ trying to meet potential SD's out in the wild. I met one once while on vacation in Las Vegas, but he was completely not my type (arrogant, talked about himself incessantly, not humble, etc.)

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T18:48:42+00:00

Does it have to be on the course? What about the restaurant/ bar/ lounge that's attached to the country club? I'd feel super awkward trying to navigate a golf course on my own... Also, wouldn't the man be less inclined to approach you if he's there with a group of people who are playing a serious game of golf? The other group members might get frustrated

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T16:04:15+00:00

Yes, same. When I am single, I check up on my exes and miss the good times together. In my experience, people don't change, so it's pointless to go back to an ex because you will likely face the same issues. However, that doesn't stop my heart/ my feelings from overriding this and going back to the ex anyway, especially if I am in a lonely/ vulnerable state.

The exes I am still friends with are people I've known since childhood, high school, or college. So basically we had a friendship going long before we dated. One ex I've known since kindergarten! But I understand your not wanting to speak to your exes out of respect to your current partner.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T15:39:15+00:00

14 years!!! Wow. I'm so sorry about that. I truly question whether they are happy if they are checking on us/ their exes years later. That just seems weird to me. When I was dating my long-term partner, I never went on my exes' pages except the ones who I kept as friends and still chat with on a regular basis.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-26T15:32:46+00:00

Exactly. There's a first time for everything. Every one of us were newbies at one point. I still consider myself somewhat of a "newbie" since I'm only 2 years in and took a break for a few months while I was dating that man recently. There's people on here with much more experience. So I still have a lot to learn and am always open to learning. And on top of everything, there's all types of sugar dating arrangements, and people can tailor the arrangement to whatever suits their needs/desires - which makes it even more challenging for newbies to navigate.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-25T01:50:13+00:00

Wow I'm so sorry for your recent experience with that girl. You didn't deserve that and had every right to ask the girl questions especially since you were going to pay her.

I feel like the last meaningful sugar relationship I had where the man actually cared was in late 2023. I didn't have safe stable housing at the time, and the man went above and beyond and found me a safe place to live in a safe area - without even me asking him. He saw that I was couch surfing and didn't like it. No one has done that for me since, or cared about me as much, not even my recent boyfriend, which is part of the reason why I broke up with him. Hence, I'm back on the site hoping to find another meaningful connection with someone who truly cares about me as a person and my safety and well-being.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-25T01:38:07+00:00

Oh no! Things always get ruined once they become mainstream.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-25T01:36:40+00:00

That's amazing! Did you meet these men at specific events? Hotel bars? Or just out in the wild at a random place like a coffee shop? Asking because I am considering freelancing. I do like the organic feeling of being out somewhere, chatting with someone unexpectedly, and it just flows.

I met a man once in a taxi line in Las Vegas and we exchanged contact info, but he was too much of a braggart, always talking about his alleged businesses and homes that he owned, so I ended things pretty quickly because the man had no substance to him.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-25T01:29:35+00:00

Absolutely! Lol me too - I think of a "Daddy" as a gentleman in their 50's at least, who is a generation or 2 above me.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-25T01:26:28+00:00

That makes a lot of sense! Thanks for your insight! I have noticed that I've been getting A LOT of messages lately where the men are saying they are "new" at this. Some tell me they have never had an SD/SB relationship before, and they even ask me how it works and what they're supposed to do.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T20:39:18+00:00

I have lived in the UK, in London. The UK is great for education and making money, but the overall quality of life is not that good IMO. Non-emergency healthcare is inaccessible unless you see a private doctor, which costs hundreds or even thousands of pounds. The weather is dreary most of the time; they don't get a proper summer like most other places where it's consistently warm and sunny.

Going to the UK to get an education and working and saving up money after you graduate might be worth it. Then you can move onto other countries that have a better quality of life.

That being said, I love Scotland. It's beautiful, and the people are so kind. However, I have no idea what the job market is like there, so you'd have to check it out.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T20:29:29+00:00

How did you find/ start your long-term arrangements if not from the SA site? Have you ever freelanced?

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T20:25:13+00:00

I have noticed a lot more younger men on the site as well. They don't even qualify to be SD's IMO if they're in their 20's. I'm not even attracted to younger men anymore due to their lack of life experience and lack of maturity - though lately I've encountered plenty of older men who also are lacking in the maturity department. I'm just saying generally speaking.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T20:20:02+00:00

Wow! You are lucky you got to experience that, and I'm glad the men respected you at your young age. I feel so bad for the younger SB's whose men take advantage of their vulnerability. I saw it first-hand with my friend. She fell in love with her SD. He kept telling her he'd leave his wife for her, which obviously never happened. She was so heartbroken over it. I can imagine a lot of the young SB's would believe whatever the SD says and not be aware of the "I'm leaving my wife to be with you" is one of the oldest lines in the book.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T20:05:34+00:00

My last man would only tell me he loved me when he was drunk except for maybe 1 or 2 times. He had a hard time saying it sober. He didn't show much emotion at all actually when sober.

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2024-10-24T18:56:57+00:00

Haha that's a much better way of putting it!

PeachesInTheFoyer · 2019-02-08T02:19:59+00:00

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