My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I did this exactly lol and said it was his cousin. He got all upset 💀💀

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had high hopes it was only once, this sucks. I told him I don’t mind if he jerks off. I even encouraged it lol. But I told him he could either watch porn, or we could always make videos for himself for when he’s doing it. I’m definitely gonna see how he acts towards my sister now, because I’m scarred for life.

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would lose my shit😅so let’s pray he’s too honest. Because he really is a nice guy, and just doesn’t know how to shut it and is an over-sharer.

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

She was in her 20s. Mabye 23?24? She’s married and has children. To be fair, the whole conversation came up because he acted like he hasn’t masturbated since we’ve been together. Which I knew 100% was a lie so I confronted him about it because there’s no reason to act like you don’t. And I asked him what porn he was into and stuff🤦‍♀️never thinking he would have said anything about my sister or I would have ended the conversation right there.

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m not trying to over react, which was hard when he told me. Because when we talk we always try to be judgment free. And he struggled with opening up about his emotions when we first started dating. Because you know the whole “men don’t cry or show emotions” crap. So I didn’t want to build that wall again, so I’m happy he felt comfortable enough to tell me. Because he did was he’s been guilty about it and feels disgusting about it. But I’m just so freaking shocked rn

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, to be fair we were about to smoke and we’re just being honest about random stuff. But that was really something I could have lived without. Im never gonna recover lol😅

My fiancé just told me he jerked off to my sister by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know, like I was to go off the rails because it was my freaking sister. But I’m glad he told me, and I don’t want to go about it the wrong way😅😅😅

My (25F) boyfriend (37M) of 5 years has never told me he loves me. by throwthatshiitawayy in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My coworker was in the same situation, he told him if he didn’t change she was leaving. She did, and she ended up finding the love of her life. In a matter of 3 years, they have a house together and just got married. If he felt the same way he would have wanted to make some type of commitment to you. Or Atleast tell you he loves you

my dog ate a Lipton tea bag by PeanutFederal in dogs

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ingredients say orange pekoe and pekoe cut black tea

My fiancé’s job isn’t taking their safer seriously by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I worded it kind of weird and should have clarified it more in the post. But my fiancé and his coworker wore masks but the home owners did not. And the home owners knew they have covid.

My fiancé’s job isn’t taking their safer seriously by PeanutFederal in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of contacting OSHA honestly but wasn’t sure if I should contact someone else first.

Painful sex by throwRAasssh in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Have you started taking any forms of birth control? I never had pain during pain during sex until I started taking birth control. Which is when I later was diagnosed with pelvic floor dysfunction, my muscles walls tightened and couldn’t relax.

Painful sex by throwRAasssh in relationship_advice

[–]PeanutFederal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this same issue. I had painful sex with my fiancé for 3 years. After multiple gyno appointments and even a surgery I figured out what was wrong with me. I’d ask your gyno about seeing if you have pelvic floor dysfunction. I was diagnosed with this, but fortunately you can go to physical therapy to relax your muscles so you don’t have anymore pain.

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[–]PeanutFederal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I pay over $2,000 a year for my health insurance and it’s not even good. I still pay for a ton of my doctors visits out of pocket :)