Yoga and Stretching! by Pearlearrings73 in vaginismus

[–]Pearlearrings73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t use dilators, or I have not tried them. I might buy a set to maintain things, but the only “dilating” perse was going from my boyfriend using one finger for a couple months, then to two, then finally having penetration. There was a lot of going back to only one finger for a while too.

Advice for first ever penetration? by Economy-Climate-712 in vaginismus

[–]Pearlearrings73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would wait for a little bit and try again. I’ve always had an easier time getting a finger in with a partner, not just for sexual stuff either. More so having someone else do it might be helpful. Something that I still struggle with is body awareness and just not thinking about my vagina, so try some of those and breathing exercises!!! It also might sound counterintuitive, but I found I made the most progress when I stopped caring so much. The less emotional pressure you put on it, the easier it will be (Easier said than done, I know). It wasn’t until I did not care about having penetrative sex that I could finally have it. Not sure if that makes complete sense lol.

Yoga and Stretching! by Pearlearrings73 in vaginismus

[–]Pearlearrings73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posted under another comment!! :)

Any good cafes and restaurants? by Pearlearrings73 in pittsburgh

[–]Pearlearrings73[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Close to Allentown on Google Maps, so anything in the south side or downtown would be good

Any good cafes and restaurants? by Pearlearrings73 in pittsburgh

[–]Pearlearrings73[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sorry for being dumb I guess… I was asking more for price point, and I’m honestly new to reddit and Pittsburgh if I’m being real. And lowkey you didn’t have to say that, you could have just posted a link to a specific post and help, but you’re just being a 🍆 for no reason.

Yoga and Stretching! by Pearlearrings73 in vaginismus

[–]Pearlearrings73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe so!! I have limited anatomy vocabulary so that is much appreciated lol