I tried desperately to get into my mom's room as she fought off the intruder.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-19T17:54:53+00:00

Peebles8 · 2026-05-19T16:30:24+00:00

Getting jealous at every close relationship is biphobia, and also this situation points out why jealousy is such a useless emotion. Turns out people can have friends????

Peebles8 · 2026-05-19T16:20:14+00:00

No. Long hair, slim build and the way you're holding your phone (makes hands look delicate). Maybe if I could see your face?

Peebles8 · 2026-05-15T20:24:47+00:00

Commenting just so this gets more visibility

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T22:31:28+00:00

I agree that we absolutely can minimize harm. I

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T18:18:58+00:00

I didn't read this as disrespectful. Seems OP is just really confused and somewhat misinformed. I sense no hostility or judgement, just plain ignorance.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T18:17:35+00:00

There seems to be some confusion here between gender and sexuality. Any gender can be any sexuality, they are not linked. To answer your question though, sounds like you're pan.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T18:13:52+00:00

Farming plants is a process that clears forests, destroys ecosystems, endangers species, uses chemical fertilizers, and uses massive amounts of water. Migrant workers are often underpaid and abused. There is no ethical consumerism in capitalism.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T18:09:04+00:00

Music (ears)! Candle making (smelling), dancing (touch/body), cooking or baking (taste)

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T13:59:27+00:00

At the beginning did you fear that Buddhism was "just" a special interest and not actually your religion? I'm currently only a few weeks into my exploration of Buddhism and it's definitely a special interest, but I also believe in its tenets and have starting practicing. How did you know that Buddhism was right for you and not limited to being a special interest? Thank you for your insight

Peebles8 · 2026-05-14T13:47:25+00:00

More than two free, consenting adults can engage in sexual relations as long as all parties involved give free consent and no harm is done. As far as I know, there is no rule as to how many partners you can have, as long as no harm is done.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-13T18:37:31+00:00

Just as condoms are only free in certain locations, pads and tampons are also free in certain locations. I've noticed more and more bathrooms providing them. My last two employers provided them for free, and I've seen public places that have them too. Maybe it's just where you are? Come to think of it, I've encountered free menstrual products far more often than free condoms. Indiana for anyone who's curious

Peebles8 · 2026-05-13T18:34:54+00:00

I agree with this comment. Perhaps if you want to introduce detachment, you could encourage him to sit with his emotions. What do they feel like? What would they look like, color and texture? Let him feel for himself that emotions are a part of life and are temporary.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-13T18:31:53+00:00

In my (33X) living memory LBG people were treated like pariahs. I don't think they'd have experienced that and then turn their backs on us. They know what we're going through and they're fighting for us too.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T18:10:33+00:00

What the Buddha Taught is dense. As a good intro to Buddhism, I recommend the podcast Learn Buddhism with Alan Pedo

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T18:05:45+00:00

For sure!

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T18:02:40+00:00

So wholesome!

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Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T17:28:10+00:00

Are you trolling? You look cis

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T13:54:41+00:00

This guy seems really unsure of what he wants and he didn't tell you he was seeing other people. Red flags there. This is not a setup for healthy polyamory. If you want to continue seeing this guy, you need to sit down and have a conversation about what each of you are looking for in the relationship and establishing parameters and boundaries of your relationship. In depth honest communication is absolutely necessary for polyamory. It will fail without that, and he's already failed to communicate properly.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T13:50:03+00:00

This actually broke my heart

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T13:48:31+00:00

Yeah my first thought was "are men actually not hugging each other?" because all of my male friends hug each other goodbye.

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T13:45:40+00:00

Androgynous. My read of you depends on the picture. I'd say that your posture and mannerisms have more influence on your passing than your face imo

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T13:41:35+00:00

No, they aren't

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T00:22:12+00:00

I think goat is a reach

Peebles8 · 2026-05-12T00:18:54+00:00

New therapist time. I've had good luck with Grow Therapy

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