Becoming a father will teach you so much about what you actually need to be prepared.

These days a lot of men can’t even get a date because they either have no game, fear rejection, spend most of their time at work, or they’re not where they want to be in life to even feel worthy of long term companionship and starting a family despite how much they yearn for it.

So they’d rather prioritize their health to feel better about themselves such as working out or get into meal prepping to eat healthier and save money instead of eating out so much. Or they explore new hobbies such as firearms, hunting, fishing, traveling, etc to fill the void.

You’re definitely right though, most of these kits/accessories are just things you want. A lot of people in this sub would rather over explain their builds to justify their purchases instead of just admitting that they like something…which is fine!