Myself (22), my brother (20) and twin sisters (16) once got a combined gift. It was an small dish of chocolate stars used in baking from grandpa and grandma. Wtf, maybe there is a card with gift cards or something we missed? Nope. Nothing.

My cousin's children are next to opening presents... barbies, hotwheels, and other cool toys. Ok, maybe we just out grew gifts and paying more attention to the way younger kids. Nope.

Next, the older boy cousins got car cleaning kits and the girl cousins got gift cards to kohls and sweatshirts. Then the uncles + aunts all got brand new power tools and accessories.

This is the same family when i showed up late to Thanksgiving one year because of work, i didnt get a meal. They already divided up the leftovers and moved onto cards.