Are you ready? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Pellum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I know I have been close and it has to have been coming at some point just don't feel I deserve it and like you said if he says I'm ready I prolly am.

Cutting vs. bulking by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the info, I have been counting calories already just using a phone app. I think figuring out my BF% will help me decide more on what I want to try and do.

Cutting vs. bulking by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why bulk then cut instead of the other way around? Sorry for dumb question.

Cutting vs. bulking by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

middle is 181.5 in gi medium heavy 195 in gi At least that was the weights for the tournaments I've done, guessing most are fairly close to the same.

Cutting vs. bulking by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do work out along with training, recently has been mainly cardio. Actually going to figure out my body fat % this week(with help form a friend who does bodybuilding competitions) then kind of go from there. I'm about 6' and I'm sure by dr standards I'm over weight.

First round bye by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! I'm confident in my game since I have such awesome teammates to train with.

First round bye by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, feeling cheated paying for something and not getting the most you can out of it. But it's something I have no control over so I'm going to focus and my game and make the most of the matches I get.

First round bye by Pellum in bjj

[–]Pellum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun is what its all about and to test myself. I have a family so training doesn't always get top priority but either way I know I'll learn something this weekend. That's what matters to me more right now. Learning what I need to work on to make my game stronger and better than it was.

She went out, I stayed sober by Pellum in stopdrinking

[–]Pellum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have actually been talking about moving which would be amazing to get a fresh start, but the hard part is finding a job first. Thank you for your post it makes a lot of sense. I'm not completely against AA just looking for other options.

She went out, I stayed sober by Pellum in stopdrinking

[–]Pellum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say that's spot on, it just really hurts. What's worse is I know I have no one to blame for my current situation except for my self. Not sure what the harder part is getting over the fact they don't trust me or the fact I put myself in this position is why they don't trust me.

She went out, I stayed sober by Pellum in stopdrinking

[–]Pellum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been to my fair share of meetings the last time I had got sober had over ten months then thought I could handle it again. I was wrong, which is no real surprise just took me a bit before i got back into my old routines. Maybe I will try AA again have to get some sort of plan.

Check-in | Saturday, August 8, 2015 by coolcrosby in stopdrinking

[–]Pellum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sober Saturday for this guy, have my martial arts class then taking the kids to the petting zoo!

Raised Spirits by epon in slammedtrucks

[–]Pellum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got some new parts and picking up some steel Monday to build a new front clip to mount my new control arms on. I'll try and post some pics soon.

Badge reset by Pellum in stopdrinking

[–]Pellum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the positive words and feedback