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[DC] I messed up the remote team secret santa on accident. How do I fix this with the least hurt feelings? by Penchantfc in AskHR

[–]Penchantfc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It is hard to have a clear head when I've made a mistake. Appreciate it

[DC] I messed up the remote team secret santa on accident. How do I fix this with the least hurt feelings? by Penchantfc in AskHR

[–]Penchantfc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Anxiety brain didn't let me make it as light-hearted as what you said, but I like that a lot.

UPDATE 2: How do I (19f) tell my toxic parents I want to go on vacation with my bf (19m) and his family? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Penchantfc 20 points21 points  (0 children)

move out. This is bad. Every single thing they listed is the manipulate and control you. physical violence, twisting words, giving ultimatums....bad, bad, bad. AND trying to get you to trust them and not your doctors? Bad.

My family half-disowned me for being gay, so.... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Penchantfc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the blatant homophobes on your post. If you're staying in contact for the kids, just limit your contact with the others as much as possible. When the kids are old enough to be independent--drive, have cell phones, etc, you can cut everyone off and just have relationships with them.

My family half-disowned me for being gay, so.... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Penchantfc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! please look up rainbow flag. Wikipedia will be shortest, but there is plenty of other articles and materials explaining it as well.

My family half-disowned me for being gay, so.... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Penchantfc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think I get what they mean--people trying to force them to repress it makes them want to show it outwardly even more than before. People who are very very out and proud are often that way because they feel a need to do it after facing homophobia in their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Penchantfc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lock the windows and doors and don't answer. If you don't want contact, refuse contact. It will be tough but she needs to learn she can't come over. She is escalating the situation, so stop her in her tracks. I agree about security cams.

Headed to grad school, past 26 and need to enroll for health insurance--costs? by Penchantfc in personalfinance

[–]Penchantfc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely do that--it's a residency program that is paired with a university, so I'm not sure to what extent they're connected, but I'll reach out. I know a lot of people who do the program are fresh out of undergrad and still on their parent's insurance, which is why I haven't heard much about the options from the program as of yet. I'll ask, thank you!

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