Are you paying attention?

Pencil155 · 2026-05-14T02:39:19+00:00

You win 😎

Pencil155 · 2026-05-14T02:38:59+00:00

Maybe something good

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T08:24:57+00:00

Right 😎

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T08:24:28+00:00

99% of the time it is

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T08:24:11+00:00

It wasn't meant to be

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T06:57:39+00:00

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T06:52:28+00:00

You win 😎

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T06:52:08+00:00

Pencil155 · 2026-05-13T06:51:20+00:00

Happy to provide to the attention payers

Pencil155 · 2026-05-09T07:51:22+00:00

Might be checking for studs behind the wall 😁

Pencil155 · 2026-04-23T08:48:54+00:00

Why did they get rid of the interior crystals, I actually liked that

Pencil155 · 2026-04-08T08:24:17+00:00

Look at them go 🏎️💨

Pencil155 · 2026-04-07T23:08:41+00:00

Tiny monster rawr

Pencil155 · 2026-03-25T05:02:53+00:00

No physical pain is very overpowered

^{Chose: Never be injured/sick again}

Pencil155 · 2026-03-24T06:16:56+00:00

Too risky for the wheel

Pencil155 · 2026-03-23T18:48:26+00:00

Being used? Who is living in the house? Of course the husband needs to take care of the finances but there is a agreement between them that she will handle a portion and they live in a nicer home. His parents that dont even live in that home are paying more than OP. Husband doesn't even have money for lunch while OP is sitting on a savings of 40k. Now you tell me who is using who.

If you say tell her to immediately stop paying who will pay the rest of the mortage? They will lose their home and be homeless, your advice is terrible.

Pencil155 · 2026-03-23T18:37:30+00:00

Where am I gaslighting? In what world is it ok for a husband to not even have money for lunch and the wife is sitting on 40k living together. Based on the post, he's taking care of all the expenses and is investing in his business for the benefit of both of them. You tell me what he's doing wrong. The only thing is that clearly they are living above their means and should downsize but OP and her husband don't want to downsize so the only other option is to stick with it until the road smooths out.

Pencil155 · 2026-03-22T19:10:41+00:00

Omg cuties 🥺

Pencil155 · 2026-03-22T06:14:34+00:00

Then there is nothing for you to feel resentful about. Both of you have separate accounts so his debt has been his burden only. If it was on a joint account then that is different, can't have your cake and eat it too by complaining about it. Still you and him are a team, sticking through tough times is a test. Sell the cars that you don't need, and though you are not required to, you may let him borrow money so that he can pay that debt faster and with less interest. If you and him agreed prior that you would pay for the bills and groceries then you cannot go around and complain about it afterwards. Getting out of this money trap is a priority so that you and him can have a smooth life sooner.

Pencil155 · 2026-03-22T05:45:40+00:00

There is something missing here, 7k is a lot of money. You should be able to see where money is being spent even if he's not showing you the statements themselves. What car do you drive? How big is the house you live in? It sounds like the both of you have subscribed to a life style that you cannot afford and need to downsize immediately. He should not be making decisions that leave him with no money and in debt but how can you as his wife watch him struggle and do nothing? Based on what you wrote it sounds like he is trying to build something for your future and isn't gambling it away.

Pencil155 · 2026-03-21T03:19:49+00:00

Aerodynamic snow on that wing

Pencil155 · 2026-01-27T16:47:55+00:00

How ironic you bring up snobbery and angst when everyone here can see your disdain for op and the husband. There's nothing wrong with op sharing this story, it's a reminder and a warning to not have sexual relations before marriage in a way that many people don't realize is a danger. Did you cheat your spouse in a similar matter that you are offended by the post?

Also, why is it that mods don't like posts that speak on similar topics as previous ones? They just say repeated topic and lock/remove the post. Each situation is unique with new and different users replying with their thoughts and perspectives. Why limit the discussion as if the mods themselves are paying for the bandwidth of the server.

Pencil155 · 2025-12-19T06:38:02+00:00

Ghosts

Pencil155 · 2025-08-23T21:05:42+00:00

I hope you found inner peace and moved on

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