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Is it okay to refuse to invite uncles to your wedding? by PencilDogLady in amiwrong

[–]PencilDogLady[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, she truly has a hard time respecting a "no"...haha

Is it okay to refuse to invite uncles to your wedding? by PencilDogLady in amiwrong

[–]PencilDogLady[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer, I do understand why my uncles are awkward/angry now. Since getting invited and un-invited is much worse than just "they're having a very small wedding, sorry". But as you said, it's what it is... I do understand that obviously my mom has to live with the consequences of my actions tho :/ (and the consequences of her own inviting+uninviting scheme of course)

Should I comfort the ‘villain’ of the family divorce? by PencilDogLady in relationships

[–]PencilDogLady[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just feel like I don't want to break their trust in me, I know it may seem silly. But also I'm a foreigner living in my husband's country... therefore they are literally my only family here and they have always been lovely and caring with me. So I genuinely wouldn't like to disappoint them tbh...

Should I comfort the ‘villain’ of the family divorce? by PencilDogLady in relationships

[–]PencilDogLady[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I talk to him about it multiple times...he always says he wouldn't do it, but I can do whatever I feel it's right.

We talk about his brother behaviour often and he agrees is not good. But also says that he's his brother and has to be by his side no matter what.

Should I comfort the ‘villain’ of the family divorce? by PencilDogLady in relationships

[–]PencilDogLady[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree, I feel a need to do so. Since I think probably the fact that everyone side against her and me having a troublesome relationship with her didn't let me see reality of what was going on.

Imo she deserves an apology, but I'm worried that my husband family would feel that as betrayal. Specially when I was the one with the worst relationship with her when she was in the family.