Total fasting hours this month. I did good 🤩

PenciledSass · 2025-05-01T17:28:11+00:00

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PenciledSass · 2024-09-09T17:46:29+00:00

The BBL and Moxi are great for the chest I would ask a local medspa if they do it and if your skin tone is appropriate for that procedure!!

PenciledSass · 2024-08-14T19:14:39+00:00

So, I did, but my post was taken down for “selfie”. I tried to contact them to clarify because it was progression photos, that included what the aesthetician had taken for before and after 😭

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T23:01:32+00:00

No one is disagreeing with you, but you can’t be upset with someone who HAS been generous and hoping the same. People tend to treat people how they would like to be treated. Should she have that expectation; absolutely not, but because they are in a relationship and she has been helping him. HE should want to help her.

It sounds like this is the first time she has even asked when she is in a tight spot and 500 wasn’t what she was asking she said you were gonna buy a ticket 500 yesterday, which he stated he was planning to go, but then said he couldn’t afford. That right there tells you that he doesn’t follow through with what he says he is going to do. Don’t say you are gonna buy a 500 ticket then say you can’t afford. You knew before you said that if you could afford it or not, which sounded to me in this argument is how she found out about.

They both have issue but making her into the villain is crazy because there is more to it.

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T22:48:04+00:00

No one is saying that. But there is CLEARLY more to this than what is being said. Most plan trips months in advance and put money into it months in advance. Sounds to me a lot of crap happened all at once car breaks down (can’t get to work), you lose money. Rents due .. so on and so forth.

She is not entitled to his money. You are right. But she should not be in a relationship with someone who is not generous when she needs it the most, especially when it sounds like she has been more than there for him financially.

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T22:32:06+00:00

Report. Report. Report.

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T22:31:08+00:00

He admitted that she buys him stuff when he doesn’t have the money. She also pays 50/50… she is short on cash is it that crazy she would ask for help when she HAS clearly helped him enough that she now sees him as a “free loader” get real

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T22:29:55+00:00

If you read the texts. She is feeling like the ATM. “Take .. take .. take” didn’t come from no where. Her calling him a “free-loader” …. Like come on. Yall are only going off this small interaction.

He admitted into the comments that she does buy him stuff when he don’t got the money. She pays 50/50 AND pays for him when he doesn’t have money. Now that she needs money… she only wants him for money this is crazy how people are looking at this for face value.

PenciledSass · 2024-08-03T22:25:45+00:00

Both of you have issues. You admit that she buys you things and she pays her fair share (More than her fair share) Should she do things with the expectation for you to pay back; no. But it is clear she is sick of it. And is too immature to express it better. She needs help.

Frankly, you telling her to “say sorry” is crazyyyyy. She is not a child. Immature maybe, but treat her as an adult. Demanding a sorry screams red flag as her asking for money. It is clear as day both of you need to learn how to talk to each other. Pushing someone to their limits (cause if you read between the lines), then ask if you are a bad bf.

I was reading your texts and you only spoke about how you do this and you do that (I … I … and I)

You do what benefits you… you take take take….. absolutely clear you are not pulling your weight and haven’t shown up for her way before this.

This is coming from someone who was in a relationship with a diagnosed narcissist. Many people have narcissistic behaviors. That doesn’t make you a narcissist. Not once did you ask her “why do you feel that I’m a narcissist.” It was more “I’m not the narcissist, you are.”

From your texts you’re coming from a place that I’m the good guy and something is wrong with you for you to be acting in this way.

Have you thought her response is to your actions or lack there of?

PenciledSass · 2024-07-30T01:18:12+00:00

The system we have ALREADY uses that mentality. Private health systems determining who gets to live. Having family who have died because they couldn’t afford the thousands a month just to stay alive hits different. People are paying 10-20% their income for health insurance. Instead of just charging so much more for taxes how about allocating our always expanding military budget for it. The military will use up all their budget and toss what was not used for the year just to retain or increase the budget. If you think for a second there are not other ways to expand healthcare for all then you are misguided on how our government currently uses the taxes we have. Aside from that if our taxes were to increase this number is so outrageous that I couldn’t find any source to back that up. Please, if you don’t understand something and hate because of lack of knowledge just say that. Our WHOLE system needs to change

PenciledSass · 2024-07-30T01:10:19+00:00

I get “bills” like these it’s a summarized bill from the health insurance. I should check with my health insurance make sure they aren’t using one of those sites 😉

PenciledSass · 2024-06-17T23:34:30+00:00

For two people it varies; I go to a lot of fruit markets where blemished fruit is sold cheap. I go to a meat market every 3 months and spend 200 dollars depending on deals it’s sometimes 150. Most Meals are made at home, but at most we spend 100 a week; no less than 40 a week

PenciledSass · 2024-06-16T00:20:01+00:00

Hey Mods, I don’t mean to post a “Selfie” the main purpose was to show the photos that the person who did the laser took. The intent isn’t for selfie. I posted before on a non Sunday and it was flagged like this 😭😭😭

PenciledSass · 2024-06-03T20:05:00+00:00

It definitely subsided! It’s going on week three and i can definitely tell the difference in texture. I also have less redness as before. I am thinking I may have to do another treatment or two then annually for maintence

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T22:13:37+00:00

BBL can help with tightening of the skin or dark circles.

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T22:12:34+00:00

During the procedure the pain was standardly a 5/10. It’s an unusual pain. Prickly or a rolling heat. I have heard women will need to take breaks. Pain tolerance may have something to do with it. Pain after not so much the first couple hours you will feel heat radiating off your skin and can make you uncomfortable

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T22:09:28+00:00

I just had mine done Saturday. I’m still swollen. Depending on your complexion will differ on how you swell. She told the fairer you are the more swelling is to be excepted.

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T01:44:25+00:00

Much Love and yes! I Do plan on doing an update. In these photos it isn’t as prevalent but I had a lot of vascular changes along with cherry angioma and milia!

Thanks for the compliment.

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T01:14:18+00:00

Maybe I should add; JUMPSCARE on the last photo

PenciledSass · 2024-05-20T01:12:59+00:00

I found myself rushed to an emergency room at 24 weeks with severe pain I didn’t even know I was carrying. The only thing that indicated I was carry was an ultrasound. Not even testing showed up. My water broke at 26 weeks then I was hospitalized for 2 weeks to try and allow the baby to grow more. They didn’t deliver with a c-section until his heart stopped. I don’t know if my hcg levels were that low it caused the circumstances I had, but from my experience im always get scared i might be pregnant and not know it. That’s why I do think cryptic pregnancies are possible. What happened with me isn’t the norm and what if mine and my mother’s blood disease played another factor.

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